Development between to people: 40.1 > 54

[HarryK]

Howdy!

One of my closest friends, who also is interested in Yi, and I had last weekend a conversation regarding one if his readings for a two people within our circle of friends: Anna & Charlie

Question: What is the development between Anna & Charlie
Yi: 40.1 to 54

Background: Both don't communicate with each other anymore for reasons nobody understands and suddenly Annas dad past away a month ago. We know that there was an expression of grief by Charlie to her but they -again- have put their heads under the ground. They had in the far past a romance but ... ... ... please don't ask - unnecessary complex stuff between them.

How I understand the reading: Thunder and rain - the connection will "disappear" for both of them. With Line 1 a view words/no words are needed anymore - no mistake for anyone. 54 - both will look for a new partner that is actually a "second" choice compared to each other.

How my mate is understanding the reading: the opposite of my reading. Barriers will "disappear." Line 1 is a symbol of understanding that no words are necessary anymore to understand each other. 54 - putting own interest on the second place to please each other.


Your thoughts?

 

[becalm]

Hex 54 It sounds to me that they both wanted things their own way and neither one was giving in to the other.
40.1 - Both wish to remain Blameless about whatever the issue was/is so no communicating or they'll stop blaming each other and sort it out.

 

[HarryK]

Interesting point!

We lately know that at least Charlie made some progress into her direction but in an extremely careful way. To be honest even for us (the friends) the situation regarding them is complex und unclear.

Charlie mention some months ago: "It's been so long that I haven't speak to her that I even don't know why I don't speak with her."

Guys never change, right?
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Edit: Looking again at 54 ... do you think that the first woman can be the mother of Anna? We heard some rumors that Annas Mum gave Charlie and his family a thank you card for the condolence Charlie made. They found the card in the letter box - so no words has been exchanged again.

 

[becalm]

Not to me - I think Hex 54 sounds like they both think the others opinion was secondary to their own.

 

[diamant]

I agree with becalm, 54 can't be the mother.
There may be a third party involved in the story of Anna/Charlie (another woman or another man).

 

[dfreed]

... my closest friend ... and I had a conversation regarding his reading for a two people: Anna & Charlie ....

I have two important questions:

1) did your friend do a read FOR Anna and Charlie (he was speaking with them) ... Or, did he do a reading ABOUT Anna and Charlie (where they are only the subjects of the reading)?

2) is it possible that there are things about or between Anna and Charlie that you and the circle of friends do not know about? For example, that they have - or are - communicating with one another, and the rest of you don't really know about this part of them?

Thanks.

 

[HarryK]

ABOUT Anna and Charlie!

 

[dfreed]

ABOUT Anna and Charlie!

Thanks! And what about my second question?

 

[HarryK]

Sorry, I didn't saw that you edited your post.

Regarding the second question: actually we don't really know much anymore about Anna as she moved some months ago to a different city. Anna was always a "moving-Girl" ... she does not settle somewhere but always on the go. But Charlie told us that they don't have speak for a long time (since her Dad past away).

We just know that my mate Charlie is a bit upset about the whole situation and that things have come to this point.

Kind of strange I know but not sure how to explain it more in detail.

 

[dfreed]

What is the development between Anna & Charlie
Yi: 40.1 to 54

Good morning Harry, and thanks for answering my questions, above.

To start, it's important to acknowlege that this is a reading ABOUT these two people, which is different than a reading where they are participants. It is giving you information about them, but perhaps it is more directed at you - and not them ...it is meant to give you the information you need to better understanding them, and therefore act/think accordingly.

40's lower trigram (three line figure) is Water and with one moving line, it represents Anna and her grief about her father. The situation offers possiblities for new beginnings (upper trigram Thunder) for Anna and perhaps for both of them (and maybe you too?) ...

... and we see these positive possiblities in 40's words: * here there's all kinds of 'auspicousness' (good stuff) - favorable when coming and going, in staying in place; in the early morning ....

But in order to set this alchemy in motion - to get the transformation started - they need to communicate with one another, which is associated with trigam Lake, the lower trigram in Hex. 54!

Communication (trigram Lake) in this instance is about being heartfelt, real, and perhaps even sharing our broken-heartedness - and it can be verbal and also includes other ways of communicating.

One name for Hex. 40 is 'unloosing' ... it's about loosening up tongues (that have grown unaccustomed to talking with one another); and it can (should?) be about unburdening (loosening) our hearts, by sharing - communicating - what is burdening us.

And all this can lead to new beginnings.

As a reminder, in this instance you are only a passive observer (unless you want to tell Anna and Charlie what you think or what you think they should do?), and therefore this info. is 'for your eyes' - meaning, I hope it gives you good information so you can better understand what's going on with your friends, and act accordingly with and towards them.

I hope this of use to you.
Best, D

 

[HarryK]

D,

A very fascinating reading from you. I had to recheck every hex and line described by you again with my reading. Very, very, interesting.

I‘m going to discuss this with my bud and report asap there is a movement. Probably going to see Charlie at the weekend if weather plays good.

yours
Harry