Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Yay!! Good on you. Yes it seems they want EVERYTHING on their terms - it's a No from me too.Hi Becalm,
Exactly! I would never wait with a message until the day after, if I were in his shoes. I also think it might be an indication of how he would treat me if we would get to know each other better. Everything on his terms... Been there done that, never again. I am sticking to my guns this time.
Thank you
That would be enough for me, if I even felt the need to ask at all. Unless he says he was so sick he couldn't even pick up his phone, or he was in a coma, or something like that. I cut a bit of slack with "late," but no show is a deal breaker.Also the Oracle says: 'for the latecomer, pitfall'.
Or a married man who either got 'cold feet' or somehow couldn't get away.....just sayin'So, you are looking at either
1-a power play
and/or
2-just an inconsiderate jerk.
That's enough info to work with.
That falls under 2-Or a married man who either got 'cold feet' or somehow couldn't get away.....just sayin'
Ah right....That falls under 2-
would you say that the manipulative part/ powerplay comes back somewhere in the imagery of Hex 8 or was that just (really sound) advice from you to me
That to leave someone hanging like that is just not respectful and that there wouldn't be a another chance for a date.
You may be right. However, for me it is interesting to explore the notion of how much fear plays a part in our lives: many counselors and therapist think of anger - and maybe arrogance - as 'secondary' emotions, where the underlying emotion is fear.Fear might have played a role and maybe arrogance was his attempt to hide it.
Very well said, dfreed, and why compassion is needed even when you decide not to engage for your personal reasons. We are all struggling. (*;* Deb,
I’m so sorry dancingfox. I just realized I referred to your reply (as the OP) when I meant to refer to dfreed’s comment about the fear thing.This man doesn’t need compassion at this moment. He just needs a good kick in the butt. Really.
No problem AmaterasuI’m so sorry dancingfox. I just realized I referred to your reply (as the OP) when I meant to refer to dfreed’s comment about the fear thing.
Wow, I hereby name him a------ of the year.He then asked for another chance for a date. I asked him to give me one decent reason to give him such a chance. He said he wanted to have sex with me. A lot of it and preferably right away.
Sorry I don't want to be a grammar nazi but I think you spelt butt wrong - using it in this sentence it should be spelt b alls.....just sayin'This man doesn’t need compassion at this moment. He just needs a good kick in the butt. Really.
I asked him to give me one decent reason to give a chance. He said he wanted to have sex with me. A lot of it and preferably right away.
Sorry English is not my first language... Aaaand oooh! I was just really slow with this oneSorry I don't want to be a grammar nazi but I think you spelt butt wrong - using it in this sentence it should be spelt b alls.....just sayin'
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).