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Did I overreact? Should I give him another chance? Hex 8 UC

dfreed

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I am also a woman who needs to learn how to set boundaries .... He said he wanted to have sex with me. A lot of it and preferably right away ....
In one way, I think this situation may have been a blessing in disguise. Here you have a guy who brushes you off and then offers as a reason? - or as an excuse?- that he wants lots of sex with your right away .... (which doesn't sound like either a reason or an excuse)??? Assuming that this is not the ideal person you want to be in a relationship with, I'm thinking it may have been a good thing that he didn't show up for the date; this way you didn't have to go through the dating dance or waste much more of your time to know where he is coming from. Instead, one non-date told you all you needed to know!
Sorry I don't want to be a grammar nazi but I think you spelt butt wrong ....
I think that 'a kick in the butt' and 'a kick in the balls' are both grammatically correct in this case, but to do either (or both) also means you'd have to meet / be with him again, .... and this brings to mind the expression, that the best revenge is to lead a good, joyful life - but not with him in it! And this is very much akin with having both boundaries and having compassion for oneself.

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steve

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LMAO I had a feeling, the guy is not real creative when it comes to excuses. Hexagram 8 really is out there on its own sometimes. Or some of the experiences associated with it at least.

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