different approach

[kincadefoster]

So for the past while, I have been very focused on finding mrs. right or whatever, that one person who will be in my life and stick with me and have just been feeling lonely, the clock ticking so to speak.

I decided on a different approach today and I was thinking its been quite awhile since I've gotten laid. And its probably really because I could have if thats what I was focusing on. For now, this is what I want and maybe I'll find someone in the process. Because relationships don't seem to last for me, so how about I have some fun for now?

So I phrased the question in my mind like this, "What can I do to get laid? Hopefully it will be with someone I have a connection and it lasts, but I want to get laid." 45.6>12

 

[bradford]

good luck with that

 

[Olga Super Star]

45.6>12
What can I do to get laid?

'Paying tribute: lamenting, weeping, snivelling.
Not a mistake.'

The obstruction of gathering together.
You are indeed complaining about not getting laid.

So I don't see any hint as to what actually do.
But it says it's ok to lament and complain about it, so keep doing it and Merry Christmas

 

[kincadefoster]

Well, in the end, I was looking for a solution to my impasse, and hoping someone here could offer it...

I've read somewhere on here that the hexagram itself is the situation and the fan yao, I think thats what its called, can be the solution:

12.6 from lise : Top 9: The obstruction is temporary. First obstruction, later rejoicing.
When an obstruction lasts for a while, one gets to know it, one realizes what it is, its why and how, and that announces its end. What one knows, one can handle and overcome. That also goes for interests which do not last: obviously they were not life giving, but obstructing. Even without being aware of it one lets them fade away.

sounds like I will find a way around this obstruction :bows: