Different schedules - 5.1.5>46

[oceangirl]

A potential love interest and I have different priorities/schedules at the moment and could be separated for up to a month - I get frustrated when these things happen

what can I learn from this present separation between us


5.1.5>46

Be patient, yield and enlighten myself...eh!

Line 1 - Head down and do the work (study) I need to get done because the month's isn't gonna go any quicker and if don't get the assessments done then we'll be separated for longer anyway

Line 2 - Relax and enjoy this time apart while nourishing myself with sincerity.


what is Hex 46 pushing upward - slow and steady....I think that again means get on with it - patiently

sheesh!!

thanks

 

[Liselle]

I don't see anything in there that says this will hurt your relationship...that's good news, I think.

Beyond that I don't have much to add to what you said. Hilary in her book says things about the "outskirts altar" like

...outside, in wider spaces with longer views...

...see your desire as a small part of the larger landscape...

...It’s important not to lose sight of this potential, even when nothing is working and you start to think of giving up...

I think that last phrase comes from line one's step of change - if only 5.1 was moving, the zhi gua would be hexagram 48, The Well. 48 is about accessing and drawing water (a potential resource) from a well, or a temporary inability to do so.

The end of the Oracle/Judgement says, "Or breaking one’s clay jug, Pitfall." How could a person break their jug at a well? Possibly with too much haste or frustration in trying to reach the water...and then you're worse off, because now you don't have a jug...

So I think you're giving yourself really good advice. Keep busy with things you can productively do, try to relax, make a pleasant environment for yourself rather than one filled with annoyance...

 

[oceangirl]

Thanks Lisa you're right my frustration can lead to annoyance and I'm actually greatful for this time otherwise I'd probably lose focus albeit temporarily but it would have a domino effect if I got behind.....