Does he still have romantic feelings for her?

[spica]

I asked the i ching: Does he still have romantic feelings for her?
44.2 ->33

Does he want to be with me?

42.1 ->20

 

[rosada]

Does he still have romantic feelings for her?

44.2 -> 33
There is a fish in the tank. No blame.
Does not further guests.

The potential for romantic fantasies is being kept under control - perhaps because she simply isn't around? - so there is no problem at the moment. However it wouldn't be smart to leave the two of them alone together.

Does he want to be with me?

42.1 ->20
It furthers one to accomplish great deeds.
Supreme good fortune. No blame.

As this is only the first line of the hexagram we are still on the border, and not yet into the land of Increase. However, 42.1 does lead to 20. Viewing. I would say this is telling you he is not yet at the state of "wanting" but I think we can safely predict he would like to Increase Viewing you. That is, nows a time when you can "accomplish great deeds" (look your best?) when you are around him and by thus putting your best foot forward you will encourage "Supreme good fortune" and perhaps spot chances to get to know each other better.

 

[spica]

Rosada, I am very grateful for your analysis. It fits the situation.

I asked another question: Is he meant to be with me?

38.2.6 -> 51

could u help interpret this please

thanks!!

I also asked: How does she feel about him romantically?
19.6 ->41

What are the chances he gets together with her?
28.1 ->43

 

[rosada]

I don't think you have to use an oracle to know that phrases like "meant to be" will get you into trouble and I see 38.2.6 > 51 as confirming it. That is, 38.2 suggests this attitude, that you are looking to see the two of you as a couple may limit opportunities

 

[spica]

ok, I guess I shouldn't have asked a fatalistic question *blush*

 

[rosada]

HI, I got cut off by a phone call before I finished my thought. Yeah, I think you can get more out of a question like, "What is the next thing I should be aware of in this friendship?" Anyway, good luck with it!

 

[willowfox]

I asked the i ching: Does he still have romantic feelings for her?
44.2 ->33

No.

Does he want to be with me?

42.1 ->20

I would say yes but he is still thinking about the situation as he has not made a firm commitment yet.

 

[spica]

Yup, I asked
What can i expect or be aware of by being with him?

57.1.2 ->37

Let me try to interpret this..
57.1 tells me to not go back and forth and be decisive, while 57.2 is a puzzle.. malice and threats?
37 is family, so I guess it's ok?

 

[spica]

Willowfox, thanks! Your statement gave me consolation.

 

[spica]

Can someone interpret this please?

I asked
What can i expect or be aware of by being with him?

57.1.2 ->37

I also asked: How does she feel about him romantically?
19.6 ->41

What are the chances he gets together with her?
28.1 ->43

 

[Trojina]

To be blunt I think you are wasting your time because your questioning is over what other people think and feel and you repeat the same questions , in different formats over and over. Like Dobro said to you before (i think) asking many questions in quick succession, without thinking it through for yourself will give you indigestion and i think the answers become meaningless. You just begin to play mind games with yourself about what she feels and he feels. What ever anyone tells you no one actually knows how she feels except her. I think the best use of the Yi is about you, what you do, how you manage your feelings, but right now your're flailing about all over the place over what others think and feel - ask them, only they know. I'm not saying the Yi won't give insights into others position with us but i think in order to be clear about the answer we have to be fairly quiet and tuned in, because if not we fail to see when the Yi points the whole thing back at us, and it does quite often because if you base your actions on what you imagine others think and feel the whole time, or what strangers on the internet tell you others think and feel you lose your own centre and clarity.

 

[spica]

Trojan, both you and dobro are right;
however, I just asked out of curiousity.. I know I shouldn't ask so many questions at one succession.. I guess I'll leave it for later.
One reason why i asked it here is because I couldn't ask them. I thought asking the iching may illuminate some loopholes.
Thanks for replying though, i see what you mean.

 

[Trojina]

Sorry if i sounded rather bossy and disaproving, thats because i am Of course theres no reason you can't ask anything you want to, and i think everyone asks successive questions about others at some point when they have feelings about them, the hard bit comes when you build up a picture in your mind of how you think things are according to your answers but you travel further and further away from the actuality - then reality hits and it hurts - sometimes - oh well its just something to be aware of I guess, but don't let me inhibit you

 

[Sunfit]

Sorry if I sounded rather bossy and disaproving,thats because I am- Trojan

At least you admit it.uch: