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lightflower

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Hello my dear friends... I hope you don't mind I share with you a dream I had this morning and a couple of questions I made afterwards to the I Ching.

I'm going through a very powerful moment in my life, because I feel for the first time that every single thing that happen to me is an opportunity to learn and achieve internal peace. It's funny that when I believe I am almost achieving the peace in certain aspect, I have a dream that unsettles me again. As whatever I do lately is somehow unusual, I cannot relate to experience, and basically, I don't have a clue where I am heading to, however, I am starting to understand that this is exactly what life is about. :)

Anyway... my dream goes as follows: as there are some renovations in the business location of this guy (in reality, this is the guy I am falling for) he needs to move temporarily to another location. Because of his renovations, I also need to move from my home - as it seems that I live in the same building than he has his business. It seems that my mother lives with me in this dream, so we move to an apartment, that curiously, is above the temporary location of this guy business. While the original business location and home are more or less classy and "old fashion", this temporary locations are modern. My (and my mother's) home is a modern, spacious and relatively luxurious apartment. This guy comes to pick me up to show me where his new business is located, as I need to meet with him later. he's in a hurry and looks very busy. He takes me down the elevator and we go to several corridors, too fast for me to take note of the way. However, I notice we are in the same building again, although this building is as big as a mall. When we arrive to his location, we agreed that I will be going later, as agreed. I leave thinking that I will be very happy when he's back to the regular place, because this temporary lace is too commercial. I go back home and take a look to this new place, a bit estranged because it was really nice and "cool" and weird for a temporary place. I check the time and realize that I will be late and as, this guy and I have only two hours to meet, every minute I'm late is less time we have for being together. For some reason, I go outside the building to head to his business, instead of going through the same areas he showed me before (which in any case I cannot completely follow because he was going too fast). I realize that I am going on the wrong way quite soon, because "our" building is far away from me now, so I go back on my steps and after some struggle, I find his business. He is not very happy with me because I am very late and he has someone else to take care later and he cannot understand why I am late. I explained him that I have been very busy because I had to move as well - his business renovations also affected my home and I had to leave to another place also. He finally "understands" and says he says: "Ah..." -like if he finally understood what was going on.

This is how the dream ends. And I woke up feeling quite unsettled.

So, I asked the I Ching:

What is this dream telling me?
12, line 5. Changing to 35.


Am I just a "job" for him?
38, line 1 changing to 64.

Does he know what is happening to me in relation to us?
37, no changing lines.

If you had the patience to read the whole post :eek: you can help me with this interpretations, can you? :)

Thank you, thank you.
 

my_key

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Hi Lightflower

Try these thoughts.
12.5 - Things are still not running smoothly for you. Keep a look out for all the small signs with what's going on around you. You'll be able to spot what it is you need to do to bring things around to a proper position for you.
38.1 - Be your own person. Act if you want to act, wait if you want to wait but don't worry about what other people are doing / thinking about you. Things have not yet come to a head.

37 - Leadership is needed for things to fall into place in relationships.

This looks to be an important dream for you at the moment and it's clear you are wanting to understand this better. You asked a good first question, but it might help you gain a bit more clarity and give you easier interpretations if you spend a bit of time clarifying the questions before asking. The IC is not at it's most forthcoming when you ask it yes/no questions (q's 2 and 3).
Maybe try asking again with questions like " What do I need to know from this dream?" or "How do I fit into his life?" or "What is really going on between us?"

Take Care

Mike
 

lightflower

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Thank you, Mike. You're so right. Makes sense.

I made the questions differently... The dream started to become more clear after a few hours as well.
 

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What is this dream telling me?
12, line 5. Changing to 35.

I think that this is very good as it suggests that the barrier that existed between you is crumbling and your wish for a relationship is getting closer and closer but the line just says that you are worrying far too much, so calm down as you know your time of luck is coming your way.


Am I just a "job" for him?
38, line 1 changing to 64.

Stay cool, when the time is right he will come around.

Does he know what is happening to me in relation to us?
37, no changing lines.

I think that he is slowly getting the message.
 

lightflower

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Thanks a lot...! I always have trouble to understand Hex. 37. Never get it.
 

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