Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Have posted here on very heavy relationship issues in the past.Just reading some threads about romantic issues whereby quick feedback might be possible I thought I'd offer up an issue of my own and then come on and give feedback about how things turn out.
Recently started dating a man who lives a distance away.
I got scared, failed to communicate openly about wanting a relationship, said we'd be better as friends despite him saying that was a shame and then attempted to redeem things with a long email.
Still waiting a reply two days after he said he'd reply in full after taking it all in.
Why's he not replied yet?
39.2 to 48.
Ah- busy? Lots on. Obstructions I don't know of. Could be. He has lots to do. I also did say i didn't expect a quick reply.
How will he respond?
51,1,4 to 2.
He'll be surprised, guarded but receptive?
Chances for a romantic relationship between us?
46.3, 6 to 4.Hmm. Lots to learn, scope for growth, take the risk?
(My therapist today said I was plainly scared of emotional risk, burying things in a long email and if he were me, he'd ring him. I do like this man...but hadn't wanted to show my somewhat neurotic colours so early).
Have sent the reply, may ring him tomorrow if he's around and actually risk conversing about these issues in the flesh.
I sensed "intimacy issues" similar to mine in him from early on. In contrast to other men I've failed to resolve these with, he's considerate, rational, single, open and fun. Hmmm.
chances of walking on a beach hand in hand?
1.6 to 43.
Oh. Would there have to be a tidal wave?
I do know I want someone to walk hand in hand on a beach romantically with though. Hmm. Will ask if I could have that with this bloke-
chances of walking on a beach hand in hand?
1.6 to 43.
A message.
Am I the friend who will come for me?
What is too small and too big?
35.2 to 64.
Progressing but in sorrow? Hmm. I am progressing in sorrow at the mo to be honest what with the sadness I feel around this and still recovering from the heartbreak of a relationship earlier this year (which I'm now writing about and have unravelled as being tied up with lots of old father loss issues).
Any further insights on this line as a guide to help me into a (much wished for, much avoided) happy romance would be great.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).