email Hex 57.>39

[goddessliss]

I've been having difficulties getting someone of authority to look at my circumstances as an individual so yesterday i sent an email sharing some personal trials I've lived through in the hope they will reconsider their attitude towards my circumstances. Included in the email was also some updated paperwork they required. Her response was to only acknowledge the updated paperwork saying nothing of what I'd shared.

What is the potential my email to her will bring about changes for me

Hex 57.2.7>39

Hex 39 - Definitely there's been trouble between us and also Limping I'm reading as my health issues which are relative to this situation.

Hex 57 - she's is supposed to me helping me but is more hindering me but at this stage. I am answerable to her.
line 2 seems to be in agreence that I've done the right thing for me by sending the email but I can't really understand line 6 as it seems to say maybe it wasn't such a good idea.

It feels like one of those times when you're feel embarrassed about what you've revealed to someone.

The only other way to deal with this person is to get a doctors certificate but I was hoping I wouldn't have to go to that extreme.

What is the potential getting a doctors certificate would prove worthwhile in this situation

Hex 50.2.4.6>15

Hex 50 being Transformation.
Line 2 - that's right what she's trying to get me to do brings me no 'food'
LIne 4 - the situation between us is very uncomfortable and she's definitely not helping me at all
Line 6 - sounds to me the doctors certificate is the solution

thanks for your help and insight.

 

[Liselle]

I've tried to think about this in relation to the reading, but I'm not able to make much sense of it.

Some things I thought of, though - maybe they tie to the reading in ways I don't understand? Or not uch:.

• Maybe she hadn't had time to read or process it all when she replied. You sent it yesterday, and she acknowledged receipt pretty quickly (I think). "I received your email" isn't a bad thing to be told (vs. "what email??") - maybe that reply won't her final word.
  
  
• Even if she read the email, she may not know what to do with it, or it may just take a while. High-volume bureaucracies (is this one?) understandably have a harder time with unstructured narratives than with forms. Which isn't to say they can't or won't consider them.
  
  
• Have they told you they want a doctor's certificate? If that is what they want (/need), it's unlikely you can get by without it. Not sure why it would be "extreme" - ? (Other than the fuss involved, which maybe is what you mean - doctors aren't easy to deal with, either.)
  

57 might also reflect your anxiety over this ...by chance have you nervously asked Yi a lot of questions about it (something I'm painfully familiar with myself...ahem). Does it feel "wind-like" to you, sort of free-floating anxiety at this point? There's no resolution yet, maybe no resolution in sight, you might feel like your issue is blowing around aimlessly? Something like that?

References to the "bed" and the "stand" in the lines (both of them, notably) might mean "the thing that does or will support you." You're looking for support, from the lady and from Yi. "What will support you" could also refer to the supporting documentation they want.

 

[Liselle]

Have you read Hilary's recent blog articles on 57?

 

[butterfly spider]

Liss

Something tells me with this reading that whoever is meant to be helping you has somehow distanced herself from the issue. This could be due to lack of information intention or just laziness. It just feels as if there is some professional misjudgement going on. I have had this casting when I wanted help with a financial issue several years ago. I had asked some financial so called expert for help but they seemed reluctant to do so - even though I was paying for it. In the end I made up my own mind and saved myself about £200.

Have the feeling that this person is just not right!!

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[Trojina]

I've been having difficulties getting someone of authority to look at my circumstances as an individual so yesterday i sent an email sharing some personal trials I've lived through in the hope they will reconsider their attitude towards my circumstances. Included in the email was also some updated paperwork they required. Her response was to only acknowledge the updated paperwork saying nothing of what I'd shared.

Here's some guesswork not based on reading. She possibly has a tick box list of criteria for whatever it is. So however much you share, the decision may still be based on the ticking of those boxes. I think she would acknowledge the paperwork as a matter of form because if paper work is sent in they (whoever they are) need to formally acknowledge receipt. This doesn't mean the information you gave is being ignored, they may just be being tidy by acknowledging receipt of those papers. I think even the acknowledgement is a good sign because it shows a degree of conscientiousness.

What is the potential my email to her will bring about changes for me

Hex 57.2.7>39

Hex 39 - Definitely there's been trouble between us and also Limping I'm reading as my health issues which are relative to this situation.

Again I think you might be seeing this as full of personal meaning but to them it isn't. They just need to tick boxes. 57.2 often shows one looking high and low for that which is possibly self evident. 57.6 you need to chill out a little about this, stop pressing on, stop worrying because for one thing it may all take longer than you imagine.

Hex 57 - she's is supposed to me helping me but is more hindering me but at this stage. I am answerable to her.
line 2 seems to be in agreence that I've done the right thing for me by sending the email but I can't really understand line 6 as it seems to say maybe it wasn't such a good idea.

I think it's okay but don't do any more for now. I think 57.6 is more of a warning than a statement. if you keep pressing down this route repeatedly you will lose your axe (57) Your axe can be your level head, your power of decision making and so on.

It feels like one of those times when you're feel embarrassed about what you've revealed to someone.

Yes but remember this is very likely someone who is processing 1000 forms a week or something ? She may not have time to even read it all in detail ? She may even overlook it. Don't feel embarrassed it's a waste of energy.

The only other way to deal with this person is to get a doctors certificate but I was hoping I wouldn't have to go to that extreme.

What is the potential getting a doctors certificate would prove worthwhile in this situation

Hex 50.2.4.6>15

Is getting a doctor's certificate extreme ? I don't think it is if you need to tell an authority about your health. To be honest I'd think you won't get anywhere without it because they cannot just take your word as evidence since anyone can say anything. See what I mean.

Hex 50 being Transformation.
Line 2 - that's right what she's trying to get me to do brings me no 'food'
LIne 4 - the situation between us is very uncomfortable and she's definitely not helping me at all
Line 6 - sounds to me the doctors certificate is the solution

thanks for your help and insight.

Well yes I would say a Dr's certificate is the solution and the 15 here shows it to be the sensible solution also. Whatever authority it is you refer to they won't make decisions about things just based on what you say (guessing). They can't do that. They will have a list of criteria for whatever it is and they will need relevant documentation. I do think this is the way forward yes although the 50.4 does urge you to be very precise with things. Don't be slapdash. If you get a certificate photocopy it. Plan what you want to say to the Dr, things like that. I also think maybe the 50.4 is the feeling of some humiliation here. In fact you may already be feeling this and it may be unavoidable as a means to an end so to speak. I think 50.2 shows the certificate makes you invulnerable. That is she can't argue with it even if she wants to. She may still try to piss you off (50.4) but who cares when you get what you want in the end (50.6) You know it sounds like one of those scenarios you have to jump through hoops for and it can be a bit degrading (50.4) but don't worry about that, just be very precise in everything and I think you can get what you want here.

The change patterns for this reading are 64 and 63 which also leads me to think a Drs certificate can settle it.

 

[Liselle]

I have had this casting when I wanted help with a financial issue several years ago.

Butterfly, just so we understand what you're saying, which casting was it? The same whole casting, or one particular line in common? Thanks.

 

[goddessliss]

Thanks Tronjina, butterfly spider and lisa. You're all so on target with this. Definitely professional misjudgment and definitely she has to tick boxes and I have to jump through hoops.
I feel the Dr certificate is an extreme only because her lack of inflexibility to see the bigger picture so to get a certificate means a lot of mucking about for me personally. ie. having to travel 200kms to see an affordable Dr. and getting blood tests to confirm a condition I already know I have as my last Dr. who took the original blood tests is 1,000km away and from past experience each doctor likes to me to get a new test done.
She's been doing a good job of undermining me and I feel like I don't fit into one of her 'boxes' and she keeps trying to make me fit!!!
Yes Trojina I'm definitely having a good think about what I need to say to the Dr to get this certificate.

 

[Liselle]

from past experience each doctor likes to me to get a new test done.

True, but if you've already had the test can't you get the record sent from the doctor who did it, for purposes of the lady's documentation?

 

[butterfly spider]

57.2 6 to 39
I needed some help getting my finances sorted and a friend had given me the number if a person who have 30 mins free advise - which I went to. I was then offered an introductory flat rate year accountancy of £200 which I thought sounded good

After various telephone calls (I had sent off all my documents) all I had back was a 3 line letter saying that re matter would be dealt with. 4 weeks later still nothing other than a request for £200. My calls were not returned and I felt that whoever it was that was dealing with this was not interested or bothered. In the end I did it myself and saved £200.

The casting was spot on actually and since your dilemma was similar I thought I would regurgitate my own. I think that whoever this is is is either too busy or just not particularly bothered. I think that you need to find another person or route to a positive outcome perhaps

I always find that personal experiences with a casting beneficial in my experience. I am not saying that this person will not be able to help just that perhaps the help she is offering is not as good as it could be
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[Liselle]

Interesting...

Your two situations might have a couple things in common, which might lead to different interpretations.

One thing in common - in neither case were you getting the response you wanted.

Another thing in common - paperwork was submitted, but possibly without the thing considered essential by the non-reponsive person. Liss - the lady might really need the doctor's certificate, and as Trojina said, the letter without the certificate won't do for her. Butterfly - you sent a lot of paperwork, but you hadn't sent the payment. It could be they weren't going to do anything for you without receiving their money.

Now, having said that - Butterfly, are you sure this advisor was legitimate? The word "scam" pops directly to mind. Did your friend actually pay the 200 pounds and get good advice for it?

In Liss's case there's no chance it's a scam, so that's not a factor in common.

 

[butterfly spider]

It wasn't a scam - the financial advisor offered free advise and referred me to the accountant who worked for a large accountancy firm. It was just that I had hoped to be helped and I wasn't and in the end I dealt with it myself. The situation is similar in that the person who I thought was professional turned out not to be
Much help. Maybe I could have waited for a reply but I seemed to be banging my head up against a brick wall rather like Liss. The payment was due in the 4th April and they were also going to get a commission on money saved during the tax year. All legit but it felt too much like hard work. The casting at the time made me decide to abandon this course of action actually - or at least gave me grounds for my decision. It was in 2006.
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[goddessliss]

Thanks for your story butterfly spider it helped to hear your experience based on the reading.

As it turns out the woman in question has been removed from her position - no wonder she wasn't bothered with me!!

This Friday I have a meeting with the new consultant so hopefully I will have more understanding from her.
I saw her briefly today and she looks to be more around my age so perhaps that may turn out to be a good thing.

 

[Liselle]

As it turns out the woman in question has been removed from her position - no wonder she wasn't bothered with me!!

Oh my word. That calls for me to rethink the reading. (Note to self: don't try to shoehorn readings into the box you already know about.)

 

[butterfly spider]

I think that the casting points to the fact that whatever the reason the person or thing that is meant to be helping isnt. It just isn't going anywhere and is not working out. In my case the reading meant that the help offered would have been skeletal perhaps. In Liss case the person possibly wasn't up to the job was leaving anyway - it doesn't matter. In both cases the way forward happened some other way

A useful scenario for others getting this reading I think ...
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