End of a long time friendship

[QD4555]

Hello, my best friend of 14 years decided to cut our friendship off last year. I have had a difficult time in dealing with this. I miss this person very much and do not understand why she decided to end our friendship. She also ended her friendship with two other mutual friends of ours at the same time. When I ask- she did not give me any reasoning. I recently asked yi- "What is happening between X and I? Show me a picture. I received hexagram 39 "Obstruction" with changing line 4- Six in the fourth place means: Going leads to obstructions, Coming leads to union. Changing to hexagram 31, "wooing". My guess is that yi is saying- do not attempt friendship at this point- as this person is not receptive to you. Also to gather friends of like mind and try to overcome to obstruction together. Reading 39 indicates "wooing" and two people coming together in union. Does this mean she will want to be friends again eventually? Or is this indicating a marriage? The creepy thing is that I received this same exact reading and changing lines a year ago when she ended our friendship! Your thoughts and comments are appreciated in helping me with this reading!

 

[moss elk]

The ex-friend doesn't want you to approach them. (going leads to obstructions) You can return to your other friends. (and have alliance with them.) That part is simple.

Do you really have no idea at all
why the person chose to distance themselves from you and the group?
If you aren't able to figure it out and can't seem to let the issue go, you could always ask 'Why did she do this...'

But an even better question would be, 'what is best for me to do about this?'
You will likely understand.