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bulsara

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dear friends.
I'm in a difficult situation with my relationship. my girlfriend is a quickly changing hi and low humor. sometimes tender but more often detached. she is a very indipendent kind but always feels insecure and becomes aggressive if I don't support her sudden enthusiasms 100%. I maybe not seeing myself but it seems when I express an opinion, she takes it as if I were pulling her down, while I'm mainly concerned with the dangers of easy excitements and would like to plan things a little bit.
last argument, she says you can go (she thinks she is better alone but isn't happy about it). although this it has happened at least 6 times in the past 3 years, this seems as a definitive one.
so today I asked Yi
:
what would happen if I left? (meaning, happen to me, as in: what would I face?)
got 55 - feng changing to 51 chen.
so I tried asking what would happen if I stayed?
got 14 ta yu changing to 30 li

I have used Yi in the past with straight questions - one question, usually - and got a few haha answrs.
I've cast my coins about a dozen times in 5 years. I don't abuse.
I know maybe it's confusing to ask too many at once, but I did, and I don't really understand these answers.
maybe I wasn't too present or was too sad. I don't know, but I did ask speaking out, to be more aware.

I'd appreciate comments and I'll keep in mind we are all only human.

lots of love to all of you
 

rosada

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Looking at Hilary's book to answer your questions:

What would happen to me if I left?
55.3
You are left in complete confusion and bewilderment, with nothing to navigate by. Your ability to act, or your most important support, is taken away. Yet this is not a bad thing; perhaps it keeps you out of trouble. You don't need to prove yourself by taking action straight away.
Hilary

What would happen to me if I stayed?
14.5 - 30

You will make the most profound and lasting difference by being who you are, with out dilution and without ulterior motives.
Hilary

Rosada
 

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