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BlackSwan

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To make a long story short I had a very troubled relationship for almost 2yrs. It was quite serious & we had planned a future together but he kept calling it off more & more frequently, getting nastier each & everytime. We had a very shocking & nasty breakup & I've consulted iching about it before :

http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?17582-Repeated-Hex-51-difficult-relationship

I haven't seen him in almost a year & we have had zero contact in 9mths or so.
Then a few days ago I get an email from him out of the blue.
He says he's gotten a really good job & is moving to another country in a few weeks. He said he knows things ended really badly & that he totally bailed on me & my daughter. Several times in the email he said that he was a mess & impossible to deal with. He also said that I was the love of his life & that he never got to say goodbye or thank me.
He has asked to meet me before he goes as he doesn't want any bad blood between us.

I'm in two minds what to do. On one hand I am not one to hold grudges so it would be nice to clear the air on what was an important relationship in my life. On the other hand I'm not sure what kind of emotions it could stir up. I'm in a much better place than I was tge last time I saw but I also wouldn't want a meet up with him to set me backwards.

So I asked "Should I meet up with him to hear his words" & got 59.5 > 4

Not really sure of this reading…… what I'm getting from it is that maybe the coldness & anger in him has melted, and that maybe he has learnt his lessons. That I should be receptive to him but not naive.

I'd love to hear your input & interpretation of these hex's & lines!
 

moss elk

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My thought before reading the answer was that it could be a moment of healing,
Then parting in peace for both of you, IF he is sincere.


I think 59.5 indicates the same.
good luck with whatever you decide.
 
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mirian

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I agree, my view on 59.5 > 4 is the meeting would clarify things between you, help to put bad feelings behind and bring closure.

Newbie21, please let us know whatever happens. Take care :bows:
 

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