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I remember someone joking this is a line when, when we cast it, we decide is always about someone else not us
Maybe we are so used to our straight causal logic that often what accords differently is hard to listen to . .
Anyway, as time goes by this line sometimes seems to me as one of the most tender in the book . . maybe it is the chuckling end of thunder, it feels more teasing than truly harsh
That's not And, if it is, what on earth is Hexagram 51 as an outcome?
Actually, growing up internalizing blame and judgment, any scary line like this I always immediately assumed it was about me. In fact, it was somewhat of a revelation, only recently, to realize that the Yi might sometimes be talking about someone else in the situation.
In retrospect, I think this created a lot of confusion and fear for me in the past (as well as possibly defensiveness). [/drift]
broken record time the relating hexagram is not an outcome..its the context...it is the thunder of hex 21...however you choose to interpret that
as you had just oneline moving that line is paramount in interpretation
unless of course you have decided the relating hexagram is the outcome....cos thats your choice.... i was assuming you'd inadvertently swallowed the line in the books about the relating being the outcome
Not sure what you're quoting here Trojan. Seems to be part of what I said and part of what rodaki said?
OH, ok. Well what is the significance of the hex 51 then? If i'm thinking from the point of view that 21.6 could be missed communication or confused communication rather than interpeting 21.6 as my not hearing a message that should have been clear?
Personally I don't think 51 is very significant in the reading since you had 1 line moving that is where the emphasis is... but it has to be of some significance I guess. If the relating hex is your position to the question, the context, what its about, then thats 51 stuff isn't it. Excitement and all the 51 type things
Pocossin mentions 51 in his post above, post 4, about laughter and not letting the ladle fall.
Hey 51 can just be a frisson
not always a shock or explosion
its a buzz
and often crops up around having a bit of a thing for someone
thats all
perhaps the 21.6 occured against a background of a certain frisson between you or in him...or you..or both of you
I like everybody's ideas here about the possibilities and what that line means -- or at least I can see/feel some potential truth in all of them -- and they simply can't ALL be correct.
Interesting choice, rodaki, to use the word "tender" for such a seemingly "scary" line! I recently had a 21.6 experience. At first I was terrified. I thought there was a warning or something I should have listened to and didn't and now an unpleasant shock was about to strike me!
So I have to agree that my experience was indeed a tender and teasing one. That's not to say that I won't get scared the next time 21.6 comes my way..
I can't be sure about your reading arabella. Lines seem to have different meanings to different people. However, i have to ask just in case it makes any sense to you. Are you sure you really "listened" to that talk over the phone?
Aaaaaah, interesting way to put it. I wonder how i clarify what the 21.6 is about then. I like everybody's ideas here about the possibilities and what that line means -- or at least I can see/feel some potential truth in all of them -- and they simply can't ALL be correct.
Not that I mind talking to myself -- I've spent the whole Winter doing it. I've made a more radical assessment of the 11.1 and decided that "bringing order" means declaring order in my own world. It makes sense to me that this is the case since it's the only aspect of "order" I really have any control over.
And with that in mind, I'm more or less back to where I began and my own rules of order which, in relationships with guys, say that if you have to guess then just let it go. Not that any work collaboration with this person is in question. If it works, it works. But beyond into the social realm -- my crystal ball has been stashed back in the cupboard and unless he comes knocking with a declaration of some distinct purpose, I'm outta here. Charades, or whatever we were playing, is over.
hello again, seemed I missed a couple of posts here . .
hmm, I'm not sure 11 is that much about bringing order or declaring or anything so structured . . There was this post I had come across for Rosada's thread (here's the link) which radically changed my idea of 11 and the kind of effort it takes . .
And while I know 46 speaks of sustained work, I tend to see this reading as one thing bringing forth its next in a natural, almost flowing manner -not because we have decided to make it so but because things follow their own energy levels avoiding as much as possible stagnating spots. I wonder whether you are being far too (self)determined for what your reading is saying
. . just a thought
I have just cast 21.6 and found this thread while looking for info on 21.6.
Interesting, isn't it - in retrospect. Assuming this is the same guy who may or may not have been proposing to another woman at this point in time? Was that the 51 we never understood?
And isn't it amazing how 11 tends to crop up for ridiculously dense relationship situations? answeredquestions got one for her very unpleasant stalker experience in memory serves.
And 46 too. There will be progress...of sorts... Ah. Retrospective. How pricey you are.
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