Feelings? Yes? No? What kind?

[dobro p]

What are her feelings for me?
Hexagram 14.2.3

It's positive. The first line talks about a great capacity for carrying things forward, and about moving things forward in a conscious direction without mistakes.

The next line talks about being in service to or growing int, a higher ideal, level or being.

It's all forward and upward, basically.

 

[dij]

Hi Anon

sometimes it's best to clarify these things by asking again a more purposeful question?

I don't want to be presumptuous, but it does make me wonder if you are not expecting this person to have feelings for you that may not be entirely appropriate for your respective situations? Or otherwise maybe time is not yet right for 'big gestures', since 14.2.3 talks all about giving in right measure and as befits the giver etc etc.

Lise's explanation

also, 14.3 talks of a man keeping to himself what he should share with his people. If you are in a relationship with this person then I'd say this is Yi telling you not to be posessive.

Dunno if any of this helps, but this is the best I can do without any background and with my modest means.

 

[dobro p]

"...do you have any clue about why she doesnt show her feelings and sometimes makes me believe she doesnt care? That behaviour makes me feel real lost."

I have no idea, no - I haven't spoken to her about it.

First off: do you know her well enough to tell her how you feel about it? Or would it be 'too much too soon' in this case?

Cuz secondly: the Yi is wonderful for revealing the countour of a situation, but it's no substitute for 'feet on the ground practical action' when you figure out the lay of the land - in this case, communication with the person involved.