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Friend's Health Diagnosis: 23 Unchanging.

deepstillwater

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Hello all,

My dear friend, who has been in a very troublesome relationship for the past year, finally reached a point where she was ready to leave her boyfriend.

I'm her best friend, but her boyfriend isolated her over the past year and gradually we stopped seeing each other as frequently as before. It was very upsetting because although I could be happy she had found love, gradually she became more and more withdrawn, pale, and sad when I would see her. I was worried.

I went to her house last night to help her pack up her things and move (while she has a room in a house with a friend, she hasn't really been living there but spending all her time at his house). When I arrived to help her pack, she was white.

She told me what she hadn't before: that her boyfriend was a sex addict. That he has had sex with minimum 10 people while they have been together, even escorts. This was why she had been so upset and angry, but he had refused to change saying as an addict it was too hard.

It gets worse.

When packing up her things, in one of the drawers in the study she found HIV medication, in his name.

You can imagine how upsetting and horrible this is: there is a great chance that she has been exposed.

She made an appoint today, and had the HIV test: she finds out the results on Friday.

I asked how I can support her in this time: 46.2 to 15
Be gentle, loving and supportive. Be there for her with integrity.

I am worried and I want to be prepared and help her as much as possible. Like me, she has no family around her and she is an only child. I plan on going and waiting outside for her on Friday. I want to be ready for that day.

I asked: Does she have HIV.
I got 23 unchanging. Deep inner changes. A New start. The flesh: stripping away.
It does not seem like friday will be a good day. I am so intensely worried for my friend.

Thanks for your help
 

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Hi deepstillwater

So sorry about this. It's terrible.

I asked how I can support her in this time: 46.2 to 15
Be gentle, loving and supportive. Be there for her with integrity.
I agree with you, I'd add: pray, spiritual help.

I asked: Does she have HIV.
I got 23 unchanging.
From a text-based perspective, Liu Ming gives for hex 23 when the question is about health: Disharmonies Violent accident (injury), sexually transmitted disease, TB and cancer
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Now, from a Wen Wang Gua perspective, it seems like she haven't been infected (assuming that you tossed the coins on May 18, 2016):
a) the line representing the illness and/or fear is Si (fire). It is non-active, so it seems there is no change regarding any illness.
b) Altough it is strong in the current month of Si, it is destroyed by the current day of Zi (water).
c) Furthermore, on May 18, 2016 Si in one of the 2 voided earthly branches. There is no illness.
d) The line representing her is Zi (water) and has Offspring as the attached relative. Water destroys fire, either she has no illness or she is able to fight it in case she she is ill. When you ask moved by fear, Offspring means good luck.
All in all: either she is not infected or she would be able to control the infection.

I hope she is not infected.
 
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Thanks for for comments and insights sixth relative. Bless you

Thank you. I did indeed cast on 18 May.
I'm going to go over and see my friend now, for tea and some company.
 
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It is very difficult using hexagram images for diagnostic purposes - I find often that the answer portrays more a general state of health (including a mental one) rather than specifics.

Hex 23 always feels like getting to the crux of the problem - finding out what may be unseen. Your friend has a difficult wait - but comfort rather than attempting an advanced diagnosis is probably more useful. There are organisations that specifically offer counselling for those in this position. That may be very useful right now

Xxx
 

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Wow, that's a terrible situation, I'm so sorry to hear that. Best wishes to your friend.

It might also be that the Hexagram 23 was simply referring to the totality of her situation right now, which definitely seems like a peeling back the obsolete layers of her current life to get back to the core.
 
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Thinking of your friend and hoping that she is coping with whatever the outcome of the tests
Best wishes
Xx
 

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I'm sorry it has taken so long to reply. My friend's blood sample was not enough the first time so she had to redo it. It meant waiting for a lot longer.

The good news is that my friend is not HIV positive. Perhaps it is simplistic, but I wondered if the response 23 unchanging was a simple no: that the situation/worry will peel away and there was nothing to be further concerned about.

I've always seen 23 and cringed: I experienced a whole two years of 23 and it was very painful. This reading has given me another perspective on 23.

Thank you all for your replies and help.
 

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The good news is that my friend is not HIV positive. Perhaps it is simplistic, but I wondered if the response 23 unchanging was a simple no: that the situation/worry will peel away and there was nothing to be further concerned about.

It seems so
Now, from a Wen Wang Gua perspective, it seems like she haven't been infected (assuming that you tossed the coins on May 18, 2016)

All in all: either she is not infected or she would be able to control the infection.

It's great that she is fine.
 

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