Friendship and 24.6

[foreverthine]

Hello everyone, I've been working with a friend of mine on a project and it has been obvious there is more between us although neither one has crossed the bridge. I asked what would happen next between us and received 24.6>27. I asked again what it was in reference to and received hex 31, which has come up several times in regard to the relationship. Interesting enough, I also received 24.6 in a question about what to do this weekend. So, is this telling me I will walk away from the attraction or that we both will in order to survive? We have developed a nice friendship and he's been instrumental on this project. I think he was wooing me, but I've never really had someone do that before and didn't know how to respond/react so I kept my distance. Any insights would be greatly appreciated. I don't want to lose this person as an ally in my life. Thank you. I've asked what to do to improve the situation and my life in general and received 8.4>45. So, is that the message? I'm afraid to cross the boundary I've put up but maybe that's needed?

 

[dragona]

Hello, at the first glance, I think this calls upon you to consider your standards of behavior and be careful of what you will do, what thoughts you will entertain. I would certainly take this line to mean not to engage into anything romantic while working or it may spoil the collaboration in the future.
Further more, if you are friends for some time now and you have your positions established within each others lives and this project, he should be acting wisely and act upon his possibly romantic feelings on some other, more appropriate occasion.
While you work on this, stay as friends - I think that is the advice here.

 

[foreverthine]

Thank you so much dragona. Your interpretation reflects the way I initially approached the situation, but when it became clear there was more to the connection, my thinking got clouded. What you said reminded me that my initial approach was correct and sometimes the Yi acts as a good reminder to our initial intentions. Neither one of us have acted on anything - and I am very careful in how I approach him in regard to both the friendship and project. It's a fine line and I am trying to walk both with care. I can't tell you how much I appreciate your response. This has been on my mind for a long time.

 

[dragona]

You are very welcome, but I am not much of an expert, just that the last line sounds quite alarming for me in sense that if the course of action is strongly changed, the friendship may get ruined. Maybe you should return to basics, try to diminish any tensions of that sort as the 24.6 is followed by hex 25 Innocence...enjoy the friendship for what it is for the time being

 

[foreverthine]

Hi dragona, I am working very hard not to change the course of direction. I feel somewhat foolish when he and I are together though - somewhat like a child at times. He is a few years older and much more experienced in the world of women. I just (sometimes blindly) follow my heart although initially I stayed away from him because he came across as a womanizer of sorts. I've seen a totally different side of him working on this project and was actually surprised by how much I liked him as a person - I think, perhaps, because there are no pretenses to the relationship. I'm going back to my youthful self in regard to this in an effort to release the tension, which I don't even know how it got to be there. I am much better without the tension and really just want to be myself. When pressure arises in situations I tend to clam up (must be my Saturn in Cancer in the 7th house) and hide in the cave (so to speak). But that happens in relationships only when i feel the way has been lost and confusion sets in. You've helped me get back to the way I should be - in a good relationship as his friend. I am enjoying the friendship tremendously and don't want to read anything more into it. I was much better off that way! It takes me back to my happiness. When I first asked what I needed to know about the situation, I received 58 unchanging. Perhaps it's time I take that to heart. Many, many, many thanks.

 

[dragona]

You are very welcome. I like 58, it is good, a lot of communication and interaction...I have a net friend and I like how my mind works around him, got 58 + one changing line once for asking - there can`t be anything more between us but he is the nicest fellow I met in a long time. So enjoy, hope it lasts.