Frustration and elation.

[moses]

Dear All,

I have taken some time out from the stress of life and the constant chatter of worries around my relationship, returned to meditation and tried to calm my mind........ Its working.

Okay, back into the fray, I now find myself in need of help once more.... Can anyone help me with these answers Yi has given me about my possible reconciliation with my ex?

1: What does X want from me romantically? The answer Yi gave me was: 17 Unchanging
I took this to mean to go with the flow.

2: How is X feeling now about starting a romantic relationship with me again? My answer was: 21.5.6 to 17
I took this to mean, are you not listening boy?!!!! I said to go with the flow!!!

3: What comes next in my relationship with X? My answer was 55.1.5 to 31
Which I understood as most auspicious. Although, the "how" is most concerning me.... I feel I have tried everything to make her understand I am there for her. That I love her, that I want to try again...so on... Some of which I realise did more damage than good. (there was no begging btw...No Way)

4: So, in reference to wooing, asked: What Does X most need from me now?
I received 18.1 > 26 as an answer.
This I had alot of trouble understanding. But I know atleast that I am clearly doing something wrong. But I don't know what!!! I need help on this BIGTIME!!!

5: And FINALLY I asked How do I woo X? Yi answered 1.1.3.5 to 64
This I understood as this is not going to be that easy...stop, don't act... get some advice... be very careful. But time is on your side if you do the work. But I am still lost on the HOW!!!

Please, all you good people..... Please can you let me know if I am on the right track and if there is any information you can give me that may help. I am excited, but frustrated too. I don't really know how to go forward other than to take Yi's advice on getting some advice. So here I am, asking for some advice.

Your interpretations are so very welcome!!!
Much Gratitude to you all in advance.... It would be fantastic to have a womans take on it too please!!

Moses

Ps. I received these answers the night before last.

 

[pocossin]

How do I woo X?
1.1.3.5 > 64

Woo X with imagination but subtly so that you do not awaken hidden difficulties.

 

[moses]

Thanks again Pocossin!

Succinct and straight to the point!

Diamond!

 

[canislulu]

It is interesting to me that when you ask what X "wants" you receive hexagram 17 and when you ask what she "needs" you receive 18.1 > 26. So I am wondering what happens when you consider the Hexagram Pair 17:18.

And you can look at it with the cross line omens --- 17.6 [ 25.6 : 26.1] 18.1. What Karcher has said of this sequence is that you need to take on responsibility for dealing with the corruption of authority in some way. You have received a blessing (this is from 17.6)!!! And in order to carry it through, you need to correct you position in some way --- disentangling from old problems or patterns(yours or your family's?) Are you doing something wrong or is there a danger of you repeating an error from your ancestral line? Are you being called to do something differently from how your family has done things in the past? Is there some "family error" that has you entangled?

Karcher also speaks of 18 as being about renovation and a new beginning. And he speaks of 17 as being "inevitable and correct", but also "connection between hunter and prey."

Somehow I think you may already be following Pocossin's succinct suggestion.

 

[fallada]

Hello Moses
, in a social context I've often seen hex 17 indicating a natural sympathy for s.o, feeling drawn to s.o. and also feeling safe: no treachery, being loyal. My 2 cent suggestion: Trusting and hHaving an easy time with you ("no drama") is the key. Time will do the rest. Passion is no prerequisite.

1.1 don't expect her to recognise your male qualities. Give her the impression you know when to wait and stop and you know when to go. Now its waiting time.
1.3. let her know you seriously care for her and the project of the relationship night and day.
1.5 Pure Yang. Virile in the best sense. you are where you belong. Let it rain.

18.1 a) could be an old problem of yours behind thenquestion? b) don't take over the role of her last lover she might push you into unconscioulsly

yours,
(female) fallada