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Getting back with a girl? Hex 24.4.5

joshua1230

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Can you hep me interpret this?
I asked - what if I pursue a romantic relationship with a girl I had been on again off again for about a year - but never really tried to have a romantic relationship with.

24. Return
Line 4:

Targeted action,
returning by itself.

Even really going for this is not going to work out. One will automatically return.
Line 5:

Kindhearted return,
without aversion.

Returning with no ill will, but with an attitude of friendliness. This is not out of aversion.


Hexagram is changing to:
17. Following

Following.
A foundation for progress,
it is beneficial to persist.
Without fault.

Following someone elses initiative. This helps progress. It is good to keep doing this, it is not a mistake.
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I then asked what happens if I pursue a romantic relationship with another girl I have been dating and broke up with about a month ago ( I was dating both and was not sure who i should commit to)

13. People Together
Line 1:

People together at the gate.
Without fault.

Together with people one has just met. There is nothing wrong with this.

Anyone have any idea what I should do?
 
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diamanda

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Hi Joshua,

24>17 girl - sounds like you already know this relationship is not right
for you (24:5) and you should leave it (24:4). Go for a girl where you
both mutually and gladly follow each other (17). Alternatively, 17 may
be showing this constant to and fro for so long, returning and following,
while you know it's not right for you.

13:1>33, it was good, without fault as you said, but the advice is to
keep it at that and retreat.

In my opinion find a new girl who you like enough to commit to and
she to you. I know you did say you were dating both and did not commit
to any, but you also used the words 'broke up' - my personal advice would
be try to define what you mean by commit and date and break up.
 

zhan1

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The commentary for line 4 suggests following as the proper action in this situation. There's probably no harm in trying.
 

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