Good old relationship question

[icegrapefruit]

I apologize.

 

[icastes]

17.3 seems to indicate that you are mistaken no matter what you do. However, that is not the case. Once you settle down, you ought to enjoy it. The 49 is the revolution, meaning, of course, that you will abolish the old and start anew. The problem is that while 17 overall is very good for love and marriage (usually to an older man), 49 is quite adverse to love and points to failure.

13 is really about a conflict and how people cooperate in getting together for victory. It can also mean a friend, a colleague, or companion. While overall the gua is propitious for love and marriage, and the lines you have are good, the 56 result is very bad for both love and marriage. The difficulty is that the other party's emotions are not fixed. They are travelling, so to speak. His intentions not fixed means failure in love. For marriage, the problems abound, including the fact that you would have to travel to another country for a relationship that is not settled at all. That is not promising.'

 

[willowfox]

I got 17.3 to 49 three times in the last 2 years, the question was always the same, "Here I am in this relationship, what should I do?"

Basically it advises you to stop clinging to the idea of a romance with this man as you will miss out on other opportunities that may come your way, therefore its time for a change of mind, a release from this affair that is holding you back. Now, go out and live your life.

Hex 56 You are alone, so go seek new friends when you leave your house.

 

[icegrapefruit]

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[sooo]

Sounds corny, but shed your old skin and learn from the experience. You said you want to learn, so learn!

 

[gato]

13.1, 5 - when the time comes you will meet him , meanwhile - 17.3 go with the flow , follow the things as they are now. carry on with your life without worries , get the joy out of the box

 

[Trojina]

13.5 doesn't have to signify an actual meeting it can just be coming to terms with something, resolving something. I've most often known it as that anyway. There looks to be much emotion in 13.5 but it can be your own relief, resolution rather than 2 people having a Cathy and Heathcliff moment