Grief issues

[cupoftea]

Hello,

my friend has some emotional problems, which i suspect are rooted in not greiving properly for the death of his father, about ten years ago

i asked: how are issues with his dad affecting him now?

I received 12.1.4>42
I think this means he hasn't dealt with his feelings yet but he will in the future
What do you think? Can anyone add extra depth? I miss a lot of nuances...

 

[Trojina]

well i think hes about the only one who can fill in the nuances here...why don't you ask him. I'm not meaning to be sarcastic BTW i really think with a question like this its quite hard for another to interpret on his behalf.

 

[rickmatz]

Not to sound harsh, but his grief is his business and not yours.

 

[cupoftea]

not to sound harsh, but you have no idea what the situation is.