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Tinydesign
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(Sorry the heading says 14.5 but it's actually 14.1, wasn't sure how to change it)
Hi all, I'm pretty new here and to the Iching and to life (ha) and was wondering you could help me out with this reading and/or give me advice in how to handle this delicate situation in general...
I've been dating this guy for a few months now and we seemed to have a lot of chemistry right from day one. But also from day one he's been talking to me about his best friend (who's female) but she's since moved far away and is now engaged. He talks about her often and I sometimes wonder if there is something there because of the frequency and "way" that he talks about her but he also tells me she is like his sister so I let it go. But then last night when he was with me he decided to skype with her so I could "meet" her. I thought it was a great sign that he wanted to introduce me. And at first it was..they were funny together, picked on each other incessantly, etc. But then he asked about her fiance and she said, "Why do you care?" To which he replied, "because I care about you and your life..." And then it just started to feel awkward and strange for me from there, as if I was seeing something in their relationship come to the surface. Well last night he stayed with me as planned but was not affectionate, his mind seemed heavy and in the morning before he left he asked me what I thought about his friend. I said I thought she was funny. And after he left I had a huge pit in my stomach all morning about last night so I asked the I ching "what is the nature of their relationship?" I received hexagram 31.4 changing to 39. It talks of attraction and influence but that maybe someone is wavering in their feelings or unsure of themselves?
So then I did another reading and said, "I think x has feelings for y, what should I do?" And I received hexagram 14.1 changing to 50.
14 is great possession and line 1 seems to say to be careful and avoid harm. I'm just wondering if I should say something or just back away for a bit? Last night made me uncomfortable, and also something seems to be making him less intimate with me lately, although he still calls me and wants to see me often. All I can think is that maybe it has to do with her. I think he is very innocent in all of this but that maybe he doesn't even realize his own feelings. So I am just confused. Any help would be appreciated, either with the readings or even just advice in what to do in this type of situation. Thanks in advance :bows:
Andi
Hi all, I'm pretty new here and to the Iching and to life (ha) and was wondering you could help me out with this reading and/or give me advice in how to handle this delicate situation in general...
I've been dating this guy for a few months now and we seemed to have a lot of chemistry right from day one. But also from day one he's been talking to me about his best friend (who's female) but she's since moved far away and is now engaged. He talks about her often and I sometimes wonder if there is something there because of the frequency and "way" that he talks about her but he also tells me she is like his sister so I let it go. But then last night when he was with me he decided to skype with her so I could "meet" her. I thought it was a great sign that he wanted to introduce me. And at first it was..they were funny together, picked on each other incessantly, etc. But then he asked about her fiance and she said, "Why do you care?" To which he replied, "because I care about you and your life..." And then it just started to feel awkward and strange for me from there, as if I was seeing something in their relationship come to the surface. Well last night he stayed with me as planned but was not affectionate, his mind seemed heavy and in the morning before he left he asked me what I thought about his friend. I said I thought she was funny. And after he left I had a huge pit in my stomach all morning about last night so I asked the I ching "what is the nature of their relationship?" I received hexagram 31.4 changing to 39. It talks of attraction and influence but that maybe someone is wavering in their feelings or unsure of themselves?
So then I did another reading and said, "I think x has feelings for y, what should I do?" And I received hexagram 14.1 changing to 50.
14 is great possession and line 1 seems to say to be careful and avoid harm. I'm just wondering if I should say something or just back away for a bit? Last night made me uncomfortable, and also something seems to be making him less intimate with me lately, although he still calls me and wants to see me often. All I can think is that maybe it has to do with her. I think he is very innocent in all of this but that maybe he doesn't even realize his own feelings. So I am just confused. Any help would be appreciated, either with the readings or even just advice in what to do in this type of situation. Thanks in advance :bows:
Andi
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