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London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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Hi there,
I took iching after a long break of stopping any guidance seeking. This time I wanted to seek some guidance into a friendship/friend that has turned quite strange and I can’t quite decode why. It’s a new friend on whom I had a crush but since he is much much younger I try to ignore romantic potential there. Nevertheless there were certainly flirting vibes - we normally meet at the combat sports gym that we go and lately we were training together. After the last time he got super cold short and irresponsive and even if this person is super young it’s a shame cos I thought we got along he really well and that there is potential for good friendship despite some romantic interests. I am also worried I’ve been a bit intense messaging him everyday asking if we train today or not, but mainly just asking that.
Anyways I asked: what is happening with x actions and reactions towards me that he turned strange with me?
I got h 48 unchanging. From reading other people’s posts I’m getting something about the common well let’s say friendship and that it’s not exactly about me that he has turned that way, maybe he is busy or something. Not sure if I’m reading it right tho. That now it’s just the time when the jug can’t reach the well...
The other questions was:
What can I do to improve my and x friendship right now?
Got 41.2.4 from reading LiSe comments I am getting that I i perhaps be true to him in a sense that I thought to ask is everything ok and line 4 suggested to apologise for me getting angry with him for cancelling the class last minute and thank for taking his time to train me or something. Tbh I’m sort of scratching my head with these answers not sure if it’s best to just leave or try to resolve it.
Any suggestions much appreciated, I would appreciate to keep this friendship going haha
I took iching after a long break of stopping any guidance seeking. This time I wanted to seek some guidance into a friendship/friend that has turned quite strange and I can’t quite decode why. It’s a new friend on whom I had a crush but since he is much much younger I try to ignore romantic potential there. Nevertheless there were certainly flirting vibes - we normally meet at the combat sports gym that we go and lately we were training together. After the last time he got super cold short and irresponsive and even if this person is super young it’s a shame cos I thought we got along he really well and that there is potential for good friendship despite some romantic interests. I am also worried I’ve been a bit intense messaging him everyday asking if we train today or not, but mainly just asking that.
Anyways I asked: what is happening with x actions and reactions towards me that he turned strange with me?
I got h 48 unchanging. From reading other people’s posts I’m getting something about the common well let’s say friendship and that it’s not exactly about me that he has turned that way, maybe he is busy or something. Not sure if I’m reading it right tho. That now it’s just the time when the jug can’t reach the well...
The other questions was:
What can I do to improve my and x friendship right now?
Got 41.2.4 from reading LiSe comments I am getting that I i perhaps be true to him in a sense that I thought to ask is everything ok and line 4 suggested to apologise for me getting angry with him for cancelling the class last minute and thank for taking his time to train me or something. Tbh I’m sort of scratching my head with these answers not sure if it’s best to just leave or try to resolve it.
Any suggestions much appreciated, I would appreciate to keep this friendship going haha