Haunting Look 22.1.2.3.6>7

[wind]

I had my mother cast this reading, being this has been bothering her for days.

The other day, my estranged husband came to take the kids out. While he was here, prior to going out, he stared at my mother, without blinking; as she would describe as pleaing or sympathetic... with a slightly smug smirk. She feels he wanted to say something, but didn't say a thing.

Later when he returned, he had me go outside and decided to provoke yet another fight with me.

Her question was, " What was r trying to tell me with his eyes?". The resulting hex was 22.1.2.3.6> 7.

I understand that 22 is beauty... but could be seen as superficial. I could see where that would play into this. 7 is the army. Was he giving her stink-eye, looking to start with her too? Please help with this.

 

[wind]

Please. Can anyone weigh in on this?

 

[oponopono]

Dear wind,
for me its hard to read anything into this, as you are trying to decode very subtle body language. Your mother could have been interpreting a great number of things. The fact that you have so many changing lines also points to the likelihood theres many layers or facets to this event. Maybe he was just trying to reach her somehow with his subtle hints, I can see where 22 and 7 would fit in there... There seem to be no major hidden agendas in the lines.

Why dont you ask him?
:bows:

yoana

 

[ginnie]

Yes, instead of asking Yi what R wanted to say, it would be better to ask R what's on his mind. It is usually a bad idea to ask Yi about what is other peoples' minds, because the responses can be very hard to interpret.

 

[wind]

Thank you ladies. I appreciate the answers. I would rather not ask R, being we are in the midst of a rather nasty divorce. I just thought he either had a problem in her staying at our home with the kids and i or that perhaps he was interested, but didn't know how to approach speaking to her. I know it was a poor question to ask the Yi, but she wouldn't let the look he gave her go.

 

[Lavalamp]

Beauty/Grace to Army/Discipline.
He's trying to hold up his end of things in terms of parenting the kids, I would guess.
And he's hoping your Mother can see he's doing that.

 

[Trojina]

oh dear this is just guessing......I cannot see much more pointless than guessing what this man was thinking....it could be anything. When I saw hex 7 my first thought was he might be thinking of an errand or mission....like maybe getting the shopping or something....his eyes glazed over and all you saw were the fleeting expressions on his face that signified....who knows what.

What is the point of this question ? How will anyone ever actually know except him....what is the use of people here guessing..how would lavalamp know he was thinking of the kids ??

we could all have a guess....but what is the point ?

 

[Trojina]

Thank you ladies. I appreciate the answers. I would rather not ask R, being we are in the midst of a rather nasty divorce. I just thought he either had a problem in her staying at our home with the kids and i or that perhaps he was interested, but didn't know how to approach speaking to her. I know it was a poor question to ask the Yi, but she wouldn't let the look he gave her go.

you are right it is quite a useless question....but you could get the info you need simply by asking another question couldn't you ? If you ask about what you need to know about the situation or what your mother needs to know it would be so much more useful wouldn't it . As soon as you put yourself at the centre of the question you have a frame of reference, you have a place to interpret from. You could ask on your mum's behalf like "what does she need to know about that look he gave her ?"....then you might get a fairly straight forward answer . I mean all she needs to know fundamentally is if she has cause for concern isn't it ? Whereas chasing up what he's thinking is a bit like sticking the tail on the donkey blindfold....while the donkey is galloping around the paddock

 

[Lavalamp]

With 4 moving lines I give more weight to the hexagrams.
22 is trying to look good, show grace. 7 is discipline, allies.
The context is he was taking his kids out to spend time with them.
The Mother's impression was him trying to be pleasing, sympathetic.
Maybe a a "smirk" - self pride, maybe misreading his feelings totally.

The reading suggests it was no "stink eye." He wants to show the Mother
grace and discipline, he's doing what he needs to do.

 

[wind]

Thank you all once again. I do understand and can apply lavalamp's thoughts on this, while at the same time I can also see Trojan's point. I feel you are both correct and I think satisfying the intial inquiry was settled by lavalamp, I also feel Trojan is teaching me a solid lesson that needs to be learned and utilized whenever I consult the Yi.

Thank you lavalamp. And also a huge thank you to Trojan for being a direct mentor and telling me like it is. I truly appreciate you both. Xoxox

 

[ginnie]

R may be one of those whose facial expressions are off-putting and unreadable, but maybe this is not the best time to bring this up with him, due to the divorce proceedings. I would tell your Mom to get her mind off it, since it's so unpleasant, and encourage her to think of more positive things ...

 

[wind]

Thank you Ginnie! I do agree as well. No need for her to worry about such trivial things when there is a much larger elephant in the room.