Help for this confused girl

[siren]

Hello all,

Would you be so kind of letting me know your views on these responses I had?

I asked "what is the best attitude I should have towards this situation"? And received 37.5 relating to 13.

"who am I in his life" - and received 10.1.5 relating to 64.

"who is he in my life" - 17.3.6 relating to 13

"what is currently going on between us?" - 38.6 to 54

Thank you!
Siren

 

[bamboo]

why so confused, Siren?

37.5 to 13 is a good omen. your attitude might best be to accept this man into your home, he is benevolent and "at home" with this position, favorable for companionship.

10.1, 5 > 64. In his life, you are a risk, but he finds you safe and authentic perhaps. He feels the caution to tread carefully, decisively, not wanting to make mistakes.It is not over at all for him

17.3, 6 in your life, perhaps he is a worthy person to follow, the Big Man, the one you will want to forego the past in favor of this undertaking. You're taken with him, be devoted. Companionship

38. 6 seems to imply that you suspect he is "the enemy" but that is not the truth, your confusion will disappear when you see he means no harm, stop imagining the difficulties
54 seems to echo this........your fears put you at a disadvantage, but you have the opportunity to get past this. the maiden will be converted. It reminds me of Beauty and the Beast. He seems fearsome at first to the frightened maiden, but he will ulimately transform in your vision as one who is worthy, and thus the maiden will be transformed herself, converted to womanhood by her letting down her guard and accepting the suitor.

assuming this all has to do with a love relationship, of course! you didnt say..

 

[willowfox]

I asked "what is the best attitude I should have towards this situation"? And received 37.5 relating to 13.

You should be caring, sensitive, understanding and helpful.

"who am I in his life" - and received 10.1.5 relating to 64.

Does he see you as a potential lover, as someone trying to win his affection perhaps?

"who is he in my life" - 17.3.6 relating to 13

He is someone special that you are trying to get to know, I was wondering if he has a wife someplace?

"what is currently going on between us?" - 38.6 to 54

The line suggests that you are the problem here, you are seeing and believing things that are not true about him which is now causing a difference of opinion but in actual fact he is a good guy with pleasant thoughts of you uppermost in his mind.

 

[siren]

why so confused, Siren?

Thank you, Bamboo. I'm confused because something happened between us all of a sudden, pleasantly unexpected but that got me thinking a lot. It is a love thing, indeed. And yes, I've been thinking... suspecting... about him sometimes. But in the way that I feel like the Beast. I don't feel I am unattractive... but he's kind of godlike, all of him, including his heart... so considerate. So... I was wondering why someone like him would be interested in going further with someone like me? I'm still confused though.

 

[siren]

Thank you, Willowfox.

"who am I in his life" - and received 10.1.5 relating to 64.
Does he see you as a potential lover, as someone trying to win his affection perhaps?

To be honest, I am confused on this. I know that when we're together I feel very comfortable. It's very easy to relate and it feels like home. We flirt a little as well, but I thought it was because we are kind of flirty people (in a playful way... innocent). I don't feel like I am doing something specific to win his affection, but it might happen spontaneously.

"who is he in my life" - 17.3.6 relating to 13

He is someone special that you are trying to get to know, I was wondering if he has a wife someplace?

Not sure about this... perhaps he's not alone. I do think he's special and want to know him better.

The next question might be clarifying then... I think he's special and that he treats me like a queen - that's a nice sensation. As I said to Bamboo, I do think it is too good to be true... Not that he wants to do harm, but that he might act as he usually does with everyone and it's me the one who's confusing the whole thing.


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I just realized that it might be helpful to make another question based on my doubt...

What's really happening between the two of us? I received 48.2.3.5 to 2... I think I need your help once again to understand this. For what I see, line 2 says that there's nothing there; there is a potential that is not manifested, therefore, nothing happens (line 3) and line 5 says that the well has fresh and clear water. Hex. 2 talks about allowing, receptiveness, which reminds me the well as well. But well, I still not see clearly what all this together means. What are your views?

 

[bamboo]

line 3 only means you are overlooking/refusing to acknowledge how nice and good this is. the little cup of fear that you bring to the well is leaky, but the YI's heart is sad and aching until you realize what's here is good and full of potential...line 5 is the best line of all. dont let fear sabotage what you have drawn to you. enjoy it, drink deep, you are probably a goddess and dont know it, this god is right for you

 

[siren]

Thank you so much, Bamboo... Sometimes it is so difficult to believe that your prayers are answered...!