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I asked:

Is A worth the effort of waiting and trying in the long run? Is he my soul mate?
51 - 55

What does this means?
That it is not worth the effort, right?
 

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I asked:

Is A worth the effort of waiting and trying in the long run? Is he my soul mate?
51 - 55

What does this means?
That it is not worth the effort, right?

From the facts as you have presented them no it isn't worth pursuing. I say this without reference to any readings. Looking at what you said in the 18>29 thread

I haven't exactly been pressuring, but i do send an sms once in a while, stating how i'm feeling.
He doesn't answer all together but i know i reach him inside. He loves me and i know that, it is all his situation that prevents him from coming to me. We have a very strange and special connection. He made a choice with his head, against his heart.

BUT i don't want to hang on for nothing...


I thought you were kidding us ? You are kidding right ? You send him messages, he doesn't answer but you think you haver a very 'strange and special connection' :confused:

Hmmm if this was going anywhere he would answer your messages. Him not responding to your messages is a good indicatore for you not to hang on.


Sorry to be blunt but if you are genuinally confused I can't see why . I don't think you need I Ching here except in order to figure how best to move on but you don't need any more questions about him. Its obvious isn't it.

As for 'is he my soul mate' ? Well if he is it would be very unfortunate becasue he won't communicate with you.
 

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Trojan
You are so blunt but it made me laugh.
Yes, you are right and you said what i needed to read.

I feel hurt because he didn't even talk to me about what happened! I am not entitled not even to an explanation!

But, well, somehow i asked for this experience in my life and i will have to find a way to get over him.

Thanks
 

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Probably the most important part of the reading is "perseverance brings humiliation".
I should just stop contacting him and get over it.
Gosh, how could i get so wrong about somebody?
 

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55.3 indicates you cannot see at all clearly now its hard to take things in. Seems to me to link with your other threads which suggest you pause and just look at things before making a further move.


In any case it's up to him to come to you now isn't it if he's interested. The stuff about how he wants to be with you really but doesn't answer your texts might suggest he's leading you up the garden path. But I cannot see that contacting him further can be good now, that's humiliating.

If he wants you he can come and get you. Meantime do the hex 20...get a view, don't do anything, weigh up his actions as if you were objective (20.6 in previous thread). Actions always speak louder than words

If a friend told you what you told us what would you say to her.....?
 

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I must confess i feel touched by what you wrote, by the fact you took the time and effort to give me some clarity although you don't know me.
Thank you very much.

I was wondering if you would be so kind as ti explain me better the 20 - 29.
I want to use this opportunity to get to know the iching better.
And better to concentrate on me!!!

Gosh, i feel so idiot!
You are so right. To do anyhting would be plain humiliation.
What's the matter with me?
 

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Thanks, i read your answer about 20 - 29.

You are the second person telling me i'm not seing the bigger picture...
Basically that he doesn't give a F about me and i'm still wondering and thinking...

Ufff!
 

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