Help please! a break up question hex 51.5

[karu]

Hello. I recently broke up with the guy I was dating, because we were not getting along. I am nervous whether this break up will have negative consequences for me and whether we will remain on friendly terms. The question was "What should I expect from my relationship with him from now on an how should I behave towards him" and I got the answer 51 changing line 5 and transformed hexagram 17. Should I be scared??

 

[lloyd]

Hi Karu
It is not in the nature of I Ching to scare you or anybody ...
51 indicates moving on with an important task (vessel, 50), or responsibility.
Line 5 indicates the shock of the breakup. If you fear/doubt to either approach or withdraw, then that very uncertainty will unbalance you. Just go with the flow. Hexagram 17 suggests avoiding purposeful action.