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What is my place in this situation? 25.3>13
Is my ex husband allowing my daughters boyfriend to stay the night with her while she's at his home? 43.6>1
How will things work out for my daughter at her fathers home? 29.2>8
I asked, will I be attending my daughters graduation and received 8.1.6>42.
what do I do next and I received hexagram 5.1>48.
By the way, about hex 22 un and the question if she will come back home. My personal experience with this reading would tell me that I am only scratching the surface, that my understanding is not deep enough, that my approach is superficial and that I need to look beyond appearances. Again, that is what I've personally noticed with 22un over the years. Hope that helps.
Hi Tina, as this is obviously an issue that can far-reaching effects I would ask the Yi what would be the best approach or what you're going to achieve when you put your current plans in practice, because you haven't actually asked HOW you should tackle this, have you?
I asked what will I achieve by putting the current plans into action for my daughter and I received 25 unchanging. I've been getting this hex a lot with this situation.
The other day I asked, what should I do about this situation and received 7.1>19 which is why I decided to take this approach. Was this incorrect movement on my part?
I now understand where you are coming from when you said that you have enlisted an army of people to get your daughter back home. In principle, hex 7 suggests a call for action, firm measures, strategic move. But before getting your troops marching on you have to make sure that you have the legitimacy to do so and that your army is well trained and organised to win.
So, you've got line 1 , which contains exactly the warning: do not set off without being sure that your cause is valid (or recognised by others as valid), that you, as a leader, and your troops are up to the task.
You see, the Yi is not saying "yes, off you go" but rather it is saying "have you thought this through properly and have you made sure that you can actually achieve this before starting this battle?"
So, again the Yi is sending the message back to you, for you to look carefully into the whole situation and into yourself and then make the right move.
It is really good to know that you got your Army right (must admit I was a bit worried about 7.1 and the uncertainty of 25 but you managed right).
Agree about 19.2.3 as it favours lots of communication and oppeness. Also keep an eye on the situation and carry on working on it. Hex 36 is the backdrop, the period of darkness and harm you've both just gone through.
Thanks a lot for your feedback :bows:
Thank you so much for your help. I'll post an update on graduation. It takes place on the 23rd of March. xoxoxoxo
The gist of 19 is that it's the time of year to get to work, not the time to get comfortable, which is after the harvest of the tenth month.
don't you think?what do I do now that she's back and received 19.2.3>36
Hi tina, thanks for getting back.
Since you got hexagram 19 last time I thought that it would be useful this post from Bradford Hatcher, which I am quoting here:
Good to reflect on considering your question don't you think?
I think we can look at hex 41 in a couple of different ways.
One is about decreasing, diminishing. As, for example, we can make a relationship less emotional, by decreasing anger or resentment, so we might feel that the connection with the other person becomes less intense, but that is not necessarily a bad thing. What I am trying to say is, the way I see hex 41 less does not mean necessarily loss. The other way is the balance between what we give and what we receive from others and/or life in general. If we look at the lines there seems to be a debate throughout about giving and receiving. So questions arise, like Am I giving too much to someone and receiving too little or is it the other way around ?
So we get to line 6 and the message is that you can receive a lot from life, you can have gains and promotion, your life can become a whole lot better and still others can also have the benefit, in a way or the other. The better you and your life become, the more beneficial you can be to others.
It is interesting that Wilhelm/Baynes translation of line 6 reads: "One obtain servants, but no longer has a separate home". I usually interpret this as things are not settled yet, this is not your home yet (your permanent place to stay). So, in my view, it is showing that the current arrangement of mother and daughter living together is still a temporary thing.
Sorry for the long story, hope that helps a bit :bows:
"what do I have to look forward to concerning my career in the near future", I received 46.1>11. It talks about new movement inducing sadness.
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