Help with fascinating and eye opening readings, please?

[HappyHeart]

I would really appreciate it any insight, please. I casted some fascinating (for me) and (what I think) are very clear readings. They're all about the ame matter. I've posted here on the website about it in the past days. Long story short: There's this guy that I liked and I know he kiked me back, it was ridicuosly obvious, but we he never made a move neither did I. He moved far away to another state about 3 months ago, so there's no communication at all whatsoever. After he moved I felt sad and a really strong connection (I don't know why), then a couple of days ago I found out he is in a relationship and he has a fiance now. So obviously I'm out of the picture, after some readings and the help of great members from Clarity I understood to let go, which I'm fine with and starting to see a brighter and positive future.Then, this morning I got curious and I asked some questions, knowing he's in a relation, which I wouldn't even think or date to interfere with, I asked more like a closure for me. This are the questions:What should my position be towards X (the guy): 54.4>19. (I know it it's very clear but Still I don't fully get it so I asked the next question). According to the last hexagram 54.4>19, is X the person I'll have a relationship with in the future? (My objective was to make sure that he will not be the one whom I'll have a relationship with in the future), I got: 1.1.2.3.6>45. Then I asked: (thinking about the 1>45) Does that mean that I will have a relationship with X in the feature? (It sounds repetitive question but I was trying to get a clarification from the previous Hex), I got: 59.3.4.5>50.Lastly, to have a clearer vision of the answers, and to confirm that X will not be in future, I asked: Will X be physically present in my future? I got: 53.2.4.5>50.I feel that my good friend I Ching is yelling in my ear the answers, but since there's me involved, when I try to interpret all this answers, I just get confused.But, strangely enough, after this readings, I feel more positive about my future, and at the same time really confused, it's so weird.What do you see in this readings? I thank you for all the help you can give me!

 

[moss elk]

So obviously I'm out of the picture, after some readings and the help of great members from Clarity I understood to let go, which I'm fine with

You are still asking questions about him. so you are still in the process of letting go.

What should my position be towards X (the guy): 54.4>19.

The girl here says no to this suitor, and waits for a better one later. (it's not him)

That's all you need to know.

 

[HappyHeart]

You are still asking questions about him. so you are still in the process of letting go. Thank you so much Moss Elk for taking time to answer me, I appreciate it a great deal!Yes, you are right, I'm in the process stiil of letting go. The girl here says no to this suitor, and waits for a better one later. (it's not him) That's all you need to know.

I don't quite understand your answer, sorry, could you please explain me who is the girl you're refering to? Oh and by the way, his fiance is like 10 years younger than him (and me), not sure if that info is relevant.Thank, thank you from the bottom of my heart, Moss Elk!

 

[HappyHeart]

And yes, Moss Elk, you are so right! I'm still in the process of letting go. But now I accept the fact that it's ok to let go, and that is thanks to your help yesterday, I really appreciate it tht you're taking your time to read and answer my questions!!

 

[moss elk]

I don't quite understand your answer, sorry, could you please explain me who is the girl you're refering to?

The girl is not him.
The girl is not his fiance.
The girl is not any of the roughly 8 billion people on the planet who do not use your toothbrush.

Is that enough hints?

 

[HappyHeart]

The girl is not him.The girl is not his fiance.The girl is not any of the roughly 8 billion people on the planet who do not use your toothbrush. Is that enough hints?

Ah, you're refering to me, right? Sorry, my first language is not english so sometimes it gets hard for me to understand. I have a doubt, why you call him suitor in this case (meaning a man that is pursuing a relationship with a woman), if he is not my suitor at all? To me it would seem that he is a suitor to his fiance. Or am I not understanding what you mean maybe?Thank you, Moss Elk, for your patience!!!

 

[Freedda]

In Wilhelm's version, 54.4 is

"The marrying maiden draws out the allotted time. A late marriage comes in due course."

Adding in the facts of your situation, I'd say your time with X is over, finished, done with. You are better off (in the words of Wilhelm), looking for 'the husband intended' for you, which I think means looking for someone you can have an actual, real relationship with, not a fantasy relationship with someone living far away and who is marrying someone else.

D.

(PS, what is your native language? Maybe I can try a Google translation if this still does not make sense.)

 

[moss elk]

I should not have used the word suitor.

The girl is you, the advice is not to go ahead with any (marriage) ideas/plans with him.

There will be someone better, later on for you.


You don't need to ask any more questions about him.

 

[HappyHeart]

I should not have used the word suitor. The girl is you, the advice is not to go ahead with any (marriage) ideas/plans with him. There will be someone better, later on for you.You don't need to ask any more questions about him.

Thank you so much, Moss Elk! That was my first feeling when I got the Hex, but ofcourse I got confused, and didn't understand quite well, even though I could see that I Ching was being so clear. I really appreciate all your insight and wisdom, thank you again!

 

[HappyHeart]

Oh, my native language is spanish, I'm fluent in english though, but sometimes, specially with this type of readings, it can be hard for me to interpret what people are trying to say to me, maybe because my brain process information too literal, or even worse, tries to read between the lines, that is "seeing stuff where there's nothing" lol, like in real life lol!But, thank you very much for offering to do google translation, you are so kind. I think, I actually got it now, let go, don't ask about him, there's going to be someone else THANK YOU!!