Help with Hex 30.1.3 changing to 50 - Relationship

[rightpath]

Trying to get some clarity about my personal situation and the path to follow I asked the I-Ching

Where do B and I stand on this relationship? Where are we going? And I get Hex. 30 changing to 50.

Evidently there is opposition since we are separated for one month now after a year together

30.1 says to me I must let him go and he would back -if- in his own time, but also that I should be aware of his real intentions.

30.3 tells me about the setbacks -maybe- but seems this would turn well at the end.

Hegramax 50, it's really nice, but I don't know if interpreting it like the relationship would prosper to become stable, or if the end of the relationship would bring good fortune.

I'm pretty new and unexperienced about the I-Ching but trying to understand its message.

Any comments about my interpretation? Am I somewhat right?

Thanks :bows:

 

[willowfox]

Line 30.1 indicates that you are still very confused by what has happened between you and him, so its time to get your head straight.

Line 30.3 says its time to wake up and see that the relationship is over, and dead. You had your relationship, its over, time to move along and stop with the regrets.

 

[steve]

Hi there

In the line 30.1 i see it as clearing your head and not getting to caught up in the emotional side of this situation as in dont get swept off your path by the feelings and line 30.3 I see as live for today try to open your eyes and see the good things around you live each day like it was last and if you do these things, you will find yourself feeling a whole lot better hex 50

I know its all easier said than done but give it a try

all the best with it
Steve

 

[jadefalls]

30.1.3 to 35
I wonder how this would change the reading?

 

[jbutler]

Hexagram 30 is about relationships. There is a synergistic joining suggested--a working together with someone who can enhance your life in someway, similar to an agent helping an author find a publisher, or a real-estate agent helping someone find a house, or it could be a songwriter working with a singer. You get the idea. It can also be about personal relationships as well, marriages and cohabitations. Both of these require cooperation beyond other relationships for them to work. Marriages are special because of their ability to enhance growth, both spiritual and personality.

The lines qualify the hexagram in the following ways:

Line 1 suggest that you are a beginner, outside the situation. So, this line answers your question where do B and i stand in this relationship suggests you are outside the situation and perhaps you are assuming too much. Is there really a relationship?

Line 3 suggests to accept fate. It makes us aware of the fact that our life should be our focus and to be happy in each and every moment of it. If you can't or won't or are obsessed with another--misfortune.

So, to answer your question--where do you stand? Without the person of your inquiry, but don't worry about it. Improve your life, really get into it, love the stuff you do, and eventually you will attract people into your life who are interested in you because you are interesting.

 

[jadefalls]

30.1.2 to 50

30.1.2 to 50

Obviously the rightpath had the wrong combination for their reading, what it was originally, I guess we will never know. Now I am wondering how this would affect the reading...I asked what do I need to know about today?