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foreverthine

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Hello everyone. I recently reconnected with someone whom I had been romantically involved with several months ago. We live in different states and both let the connection slide into oblivion due to different schedules, etc. There were no hard feelings or distress, just a general parting of the ways. He contacted me recently when he was back in town and we had a wonderful time. We connected on so many levels and it was like no time had passed whatsoever. Now he is back home and back at work. We are both going to be in the same city next week (a complete coincidence) and will try to get together again then. I asked the IC about what he wants from the relationship/connection and keep getting hex 12 unchanging. I also asked how I had his heart and received Hex 47. A little insight would be helpful.

I asked how I should view the relationship/proceed and received 46.2.6>52.

When we met prior, I was seeing only red lights in relation to it, but now I see green lights, although the block bothers me. We are definitely blocked in communication when he's away because he travels so much for his job. I'm just a little more than stumped.

I also asked the future relationship potential and kept receiving Hex 3. We are definitely still in the early sowing stage.

Thanks for the help.
 

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When we met prior, I was seeing only red lights in relation to it, but now I see green lights, although the block bothers me.

heh, he somehow managed to screw your semaphore but 12 is red light
 

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Well then, I guess we'll never really get it together. That is too bad, but thank you for the explanation.
 

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Hi vgk1,

I agree with Gato. The unchanging hexagrams you received are very clear in their message, and both unfortunately inauspicious. Hex 12 is withdrawal. As was put in a thread of mine:

Each according to their own way: strangers to each other.

Hex 47 in its turn seems to indicate that his feelings are exhausted. Maybe the block you mention (hex 12 could be a nod to it) is an obstable he does not feel you two can work around, or maybe his career consumes all his energies (hex 47) and there's no room at the moment for a relationship, especially one complicated by distance?

The other two readings are however less dim and interestingly both show a plant pushing to grow. Maybe the times are not ripe yet, but some potential could be there for this relationship to blossom in the future.

Taking all this with a huge grain of salt, if I were you I would live this situation day by day, without having any expectation but still keeping an open disposition. Not easy, I know...

All the best! :hug:
 
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Having been through a similar situation, no hexagram is permanent. I don't want to disqualify myself from saying this, but I am newbe at Yi, that being said, my intuition is excellent. So, I am not going to cast a lot of doubt by saying the relationship is over. No one said that. What we are saying, collectively, (help me vgk1 and gato if I am wrong) is that right now there is a red light. He's tired, fatigued, needs some rest. Maybe this relationship thing has him so exhausted that he needs to refill his emotional cup. Men need cave time...well, I need cave time to do exactly what I am suggesting your friend is doing. Maybe some other more practical things need his attention. Romance can be very exhausting. I know.

(a complete coincidence) In my experiences, there are no coincidences. Everything happens for a reason. I am not always clear about why things happen the way they do. Detach, detach in love, wait a few days, consult the oracle again with the same question and see what comes up. As RL Wing says, "You must conceal your convictions and remove yourself from any situation that will cause you conflict UNTIL the time of stagnation passes." The key here is to detach. Forget about it for a few days. And then bring your emotions back to the situation and ask the oracle the same question and see what you get. 12's are not forever. It is the time required for the old to eat itself up, fertilizing the land, giving it what it needs for the next round of crops.

Hope I have been helpful.
 

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12uc, there is no connection, no interaction, the trigrams heaven and earth not connecting.
 

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I truly appreciate everyone's response. When I first read Gato's post, it hit me right in the gut. It was difficult because we had just come off of a wonderful weekend where everything seemed to align. We hung out with his work partners in between their working schedules. Yes, his work schedule is grueling and when he's not working when he's here, we are usually together in the evenings and up late. His career defnitely consumes all of his energy and I do tend to back off/away even though I don't always want to. I loved Davy's comment about the man cave because he is definitely a man in that sense and I'm not used to being with someone with such masculine energy. I, on the other hand, am exactly the opposite - female in every sense of the word. lol

Cris is correct - His career consumes all of his energies. He does get tired and fatigued and I am accepting of those times that he is. When we are together, I know there is more of a connection than a physical one based on body language, the kinds of discussions we have, etc. I also agree with Davy that nothing is a coincidence. We both travel quite a bit and this is the first time we are actually going to be in the same place at the same time. I'm not sure what to expect from being there togther - and it does seem that the readings now and even a few months prior have pointed to the time not being ripe. Something needs to change, I'm just not sure how or in what way. We both have let the connection go at different times, but always seem to come back together and it's like no time has passed at all. And he definitely is tending to pratical things at home. Like me, he has a strong sense of responsibility to his duties.

In any event, your comments have eased my heart. I did ask who I was being in the relationship and received Hex 14.1.6>32. I received Hex 14.1.2.3.4.5 in reference to what I needed to do. Perhaps there are a few more insights you would be willing to share. I often do readings without asking for too much - because sometimes they tend to disquiet my heart. But from the posts today quite the opposite has occurred.
 
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