Hex 13 unchanging what does he want from me?

[pooja123]

An old flame had appeared. We broke up last November as it was a love triangle. A week ago he contacted me. We are in friendly terms but it is not easy for me. As old romantic feelings are surfacing. He has not mentioned about starting over. He mentioned that his relationship with his fiancee is on the rocks. And his business is down. I asked yi what does he wants from me? I got 13 UC. The literal meaning about crossing the great water confuses me. He wants me to move on? But he just said Hi. Now its goodbye. Could it be he is confused? Or does he want me as a friend? A fellowship? A chance at love? I'm confused.

 

[pooja123]

Any interpretation is much appreciated

 

[diamanda]

Hi pooja,

For me in relationship questions, 13 unchanging meant the following:

• Guy X behaved as if he wanted a reconciliation, but it turned out he wanted just to be friends (without benefits).
• Guy Y simply didn't want any sort of relationship with anyone and enjoyed a huge collection of online 'friends'.
• Guy Z was on the general lookout for multiple partners, he wouldn't mind having me on the side as a once in a while friend-with-benefits (but I declined this irresistible option).

Not sure which of the above your guy wants. He still has a fiancee, so that's not good. It's quite a cliche when a guy tells a woman that he has problems with his girlfriend/fiancee/wife. Sorry, but it doesn't sound that great.

 

[moss elk]

does he want me as a friend? A fellowship? A chance at love? I'm confused.

Hi pooja,

I think you could cross off the 'love' possibility. 13 is like an ally or linkedin connection.

This is the guy from your reading before, right? (if so the counsel was to say no and move on)

Your Mind controls the reins,
your Heart pulls the wagon.
Don't let the horse steer.

 

[pooja123]

I really hate him playing mind games with me. I heard from the grapevine, he and his fiancee broke the engagement. I saw that she removed her pic of him and her in embrace from her instagram. He said he wanted to tell me what had happened over coffee. And the next day he is saying he is flying somewhere to get away from.everything. l guess this is what 13 is saying. He wants reconciliation but changed his mind.

 

[pooja123]

Thank you all. Will post updates. Anyway l asked yi if he will go on this getaway trip. I got hex 45.6. It shows that he is really not doing well. Sadness. Weeping. I should just leave him alone for now.

 

[pooja123]

Yes its the same guy. You have no.idea how hard it took me to leave this guy. Im frustrated. I.need to move on.

 

[marybluesky]

Hi Pooja!

13 is "People in Harmony", "Fellowship". Sounds like he wants someone to talk with, someone not that intimate. Consider him a distant friend.

Good Luck!

 

[pooja123]

Thx Mary .