Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Hello everyone,
Lately I've started a couple of posts about my "looking for a flat" situation. In a nutshell, I am forced to move from where I live now and seems I can't afford with my own means something that ticks, at least, the most important boxes. I looked for places further from my city and my workplace but couldn't find anywhere where I wouldn't feel lonely and stressed because of my dependency on public transport. Anyway. Even though I was hesitant at first I decided to take this opportunity to take the relationship with my partner to the next level. I was excited about it; somehow, my bad luck made sense to me. After visiting some flats and doing a lot of search, today he told me that he's not sure he wants to take this step. the reason is sad. He says he doesn't want to loose his "purchasing power", investing on furniture, jobs paintings and so on. He doesn't want to pay half of a rent either. He lives rent free with his mother. He is 55, for God's sake. I feel devastated now. I feel fooled. I know he loves me but... he's scared of commitment and scared of us not being able to make ends meet and therefore end up hating each other. That's what he says. But I still have to move, and have to do it quick, and won't be any easier without his support and with a new source of distress. I asked the iching what would be my best course of action regarding to my flat hunting situation. I got hexagram 14.1.3 to 64.
I understand the first line of hex 14 is advising not to allow him to hurt me and make things more difficult to me (so, is it not counting on him anymore, or demanding more commitment (if such thing is demandable)?
The third line talks about possessions that one doesn't offer because wants to keep them for himself... well, I think it's pretty clear what the Yi is talking about...maybe indicating that he won't change.
And hex 64... could mean that I should be able to realise that in order to fix my situation?
I could do with some insight with this one, because I am quite lost in this situation. I'm having the saddest birthday ever Many thanks in advance
Well, yesterday I got a phone call from an estate agent. I had visited a flat, a very nice one, but also very inconvenient in terms of location. It's in a residential neighborhood, a bit far from shops and commercial zone, and it's something I'm not used to. Since I don't have a car, it could make my life a bit complicated, but nothing I cannot handle, I think. The guy offered a reduction of the rent price, so I would be able to rent it, with the collaboration of my partner, who agrees on paying a third of the rent and spending "most of the days" at my place. The flat is nice, and it's fully furnished, so I wouldn't have to buy anything. I was rather excited about it, all the more since I was supposed to start making decisions on the third. I asked what would be the outcome of renting this flat and got: Hex. 1.1.3.5 >64, which sounded not very auspicious (specially line 1). I felt a bit frustrated with the cast, as it seemed to ask more time and patience from me, which is something I don't think I can afford. I tried to rephrase my question and asked "What will happen if I rent this flat?" and got Hex. 1.1.3>6. Again, hex1, and again, line 1. Of course. But why? I mean, I can’t really see what would be so bad about renting that flat… I just need somewhere to move and stop feeling under pressure. And the place looks nice, and pretty much as good as it can get in this city… But the Yi talks about not moving, being in danger… although it might be referring to my current situation … I’m completely lost; can anyone please help me understand whether I should rent this flat or not? � Many thanks.
The guy offered a reduction of the rent price, so I would be able to rent it, with the collaboration of my partner, who agrees on paying a third of the rent and spending "most of the days" at my place. The flat is nice, and it's fully furnished, so I wouldn't have to buy anything. I was rather excited about it, all the more since I was supposed to start making decisions on the third. I asked what would be the outcome of renting this flat and got: Hex. 1.1.3.5 >64, which sounded not very auspicious (specially line 1). I felt a bit frustrated with the cast, as it seemed to ask more time and patience from me, which is something I don't think I can afford
I just need somewhere to move and stop feeling under pressure. And the place looks nice, and pretty much as good as it can get in this city…
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).