Hex 14 - No changing line

[Sashamarie]

Hex 14 - No changing lines - Love and relationship!

Hello guys!

My boyfriend and I have been through a complicated relationship lately.
He seems so cold and whenever I call him he says he is busy.
I was wondering if he is cheating on me and I am so sad

I asked Iching if he is going to come back to me and I got hex 14 with no changing line.

Could you help me interprete it? What does iching predict for our relationship?

Thank you!

 

[bostonian]

well the most obvious answer is that the relationship will yield great treasures. Whether these treasures will be manifested within the relationship of outside it is unanswered. For example, it might be predicting that you and your boyfriend will work through your problems and create a wonderful relationship full of love and prosperity. Or it might be predicting that your treasure will come as a result of what you learn from a negative situation. I think you need to have more dialog with the I Ching. In my experience, it's best to do that over the course of days or even weeks, not in just one day because there is the tendency to become frantic.

 

[Sashamarie]

Thanks a alot Bostonian!
I will really appreciate if you explain it more, how I should have dialog with the iching?
You mean with this hex I already got? Wait several days? Or you mean I should repeat my question after a while?

Thank you in advance

 

[bostonian]

First, the hardest thing to do is to be open to what the I Ching tells you. Anyone in your situation would want a specific outcome. But do the best you can, without putting undue pressure on yourself, to be open to the guidance. Second, follow your heart? What further information do you want from the I Ching? What specific questions do you have? Also, situations change; so you can ask the same question on another day. My caveat about spreading out your questions is because sometimes if you try to get all your answers in one session -- or even in one week -- you won't have time to reflect on the guidance. By the way, you might consider besides asking about what your boyfriend is doing or will do also ask what you should do.

 

[moss elk]

ask what you should do.

Focus on this.

 

[Sashamarie]

Thanks a lot guys!
I will do this and put them here again!