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Perhaps you are right. And I would say yes too, even if I try to suppress or deny the feelings. But this still doesn't for me explain his weird behaviour and I don't really understand what is the advice for me here.The reading shows the coaches intentions are pure (58=friends), without pretense, in his overseeing (19) of you.
Line 4 shows his commitment.
Line 5 is a picture of a 'coach' or counselor.
You, however, seem to be developing feelings for him.
So, maybe best to get hold of yourself?
I don't really understand what is the advice for me here.
"When the eighth month comes,There will be misfortune"
Thank you both for your answers. Will try to keep those feelings of mine at bay and not build hope on lasting (training or other) relationships. Although he does say that "when you come to join me" or "we will go there or there", he is so flaky that I don't want to build on these future fantasies.
Well at least good to know he doesn't hate me
That actually made sense for me in context of Iching creation, didn't really put 8th month and the harvest together and was wondering what is this 8th month, 8th month of whatttt??? hahaHi Matali,
This translation you quoted seems to me to be a common mistake.
19 is about approaching and overseeing the farm work. The 8th month is harvest time. Combine the two and you get a message something like, "there is work to be done, planning & plowing - showing up only at harvest time
to reap the benefits is no good."
Bradford has it as:
To arrive in the eighth month* would be unfortunate
But in any event,
the judgement doesn't apply when there are changing lines, such as in this reading.
So in terms of your interpretation, Im getting that you saying that there has to be hard work to be put into the bond between us whatever that is - i guess hard work from me in terms of training, but also in terms of continuously building trust.
Thank you both Mosselk and RemRem for taking your time to respond to me.Hi Osenia!
Rem here. Happy to meet you here.
I hope to share my take on your reading.
Q; WHAT IS GOING ON BETWEEN ME AND MY COACH?"
Hexagram 19.4.5. > 58
19 is approach or nearing. (also influence)
It may suggest a closing of distance.
In the context of people interactions, closing of distance is the proxemity of relationship: how close people to each other.
Give this, it suggests that there's a "closeness" that happens - it becomes too personal and the psychological space/gap is too close. The boundary is disappearing at this point.
From the joyful and satisfying coach-client dynamics (Inner Lake) comes this sense of being broken and vulnerable (Outer Earth)
What's obvious is there's no pause in the coaching process (teaching and reflecting untiringly)
and it's too open yet too confining (accept and protects people without limit)
Despite this, it can be resolved:
take the opportunity (Line 4) that literally the space will go distant, as you mentioned that he is leaving.
(end is nearing, no mistake)
Your best time (Line 5) is to step up for yourself and reclaim your psychological space.
This brings you back to the joy that was once existing in your coach-client relationship.
Hope this helps, Osenia.
Rem
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