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dragona

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Greetings all :)

Getting right to the point of yet another potential relationship question :eek:- the man seems to have decided on it all on his own, I am not beeing asked much but to obbey and follow his call...thus the question:
What is the potential of my relationship with X? Hex 20.3,5 into 52.
I would say that these changing lines are speaking to me, to decide on what I want from this because it could change my life and my life needs to get changed so I fear of doing something drastic just for the sake of change itself with the wrong person intirely.
On hexagram 20 alone, cannot really be clear who is to follow who`s lead and it is said that 20 has a double meaning after all...perhaps it represents differences in our personalities and approaches? But the question was about THE POTENTIAL and that answer escapes me here.
And than a standstil, achieving a quiet hart. Not really what would one expect to get on the relationship reading so again I ask for your help.

I get quite illuminating advices when ask for an insight or advice from Yi on the situation in question so asked an advice on the connection/relationship with X? Hex 4.1,4 into 38...again :cool: This does not look good at all to me.
But please, feel free to correct me if I am wrong and please do it soon so I can try to minimise the dammage of it all. :rolleyes:
Thank you.
 

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And than a standstil, achieving a quiet hart. Not really what would one expect to get on the relationship reading

Hello dragona

I would say achieving a quiet heart is precisely what relationships (of all types) need!

The heart doesn't thrive in turmoil or disturbance. It needs tranquillity and a calm, steady pace. It doesn't like to be overexcited or giddy, it's not good for it and it clouds everything.

I'm not sure where you get the bit about hexagram 20 and who's to lead and who's to follow. Who says that leading and following is necessary? Your man says so? :mischief:

I think the rest of what you wrote about hexagram 20 is getting more at what the hexagram is about. The answer is talking about getting some distance so that you can see the potential for yourself, without the confusion of 'it's supposed to be this way' or 'here's the categorical answer'. It's saying to still your self, step back, become clear of the usual filters and preconceptions, and read the signs in front of you in the actual relationship (not in the Yi), because it's all there in front of you if you can but become clear-seeing and calm hearted. Your heart already knows what the potential of the relationship is, so maybe have a look there.

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Nebu
 

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Thank you Nebu,
(if we change one letter in your name, we get the meaning of "the sky", so nice to get an advice from the sky itself :))

I get the feeling Yi is telling me: sit back, think of what you want, decide and than do it.
This person may end up to be genuine in its intentions.
Nothing in my life is all right - I am doubtfull of anything and anybody who comes in out of nowhere and asks for immidiate love and trust, saying it is on carmic level...I should be feeling that way too, if that is the case, and I do not..and all of that online, and that person is not "my type" or anything really, just that his caring way warms my heart :blush: ...but I am too much of a mess and really feeling very low, too scared to relax in it and take it less dramaticaly, I suppose.
Thus, am I to follow his lead - it was ment in that sence, that is how I read it from this link: http://www.iching123.com/20_text.htm or perhaps he shuld follow mine? Hex. speaks of cooperation also, but to me it seems this is a case of lower following the higher one - simplifying now, of course.
I guess I am burdoned with our astrological incompatibility - we are too different, Virgo and Aquarius!

So thank you for soothing me, but still..I don`t feel what I think I should feel.:bag:
 
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And on advice on the connection/relationship with X? Hex 4.1,4 into 38.
I am reading it as: you dont know what to do just yet, you should be carefull and clip the wings that are spreading so soon, but not censore or clipp too much in its beguinings.
Initial 6: To develop the ignorant, one will harvest by using corrections. Useful to remove shackles and manacles. To go on using them brings distress.
One can learn a lot of one's faults, but one must have the freedom to make them. The quickest way to learn is by experience, which is a severe master, and with freedom and an open mind. Learning can be fun.
(LiSe)

(LiSe)

But Wilhelm is very clear:
Six in the fourth place means:
Entangled folly bring humiliation.
For youthful folly it is the most hopeless thing to entangle itself in empty imaginings. The more obstinately it clings to such unreal fantasies, the more certainly will humiliation overtake it. Often the teacher, when confronted with such entangled folly, has no other course but to leave the fool to himself for a time, not sparing him the humiliation that results. This is frequently the only means of rescue.

That is just it ; I am presented with all or nothing choice, and of choosing immidiately..and I think its clear here it is only daydreaming....

And not seeing eye to eye on this, will pull us apart eventually -or the opposites attract story is at hand?;)
Hex 38: In general, opposition appears as an obstruction, but when it represents polarity within a comprehensive whole, it has also its useful and important functions. The oppositions of heaven and earth, spirit and nature, man and woman, when reconciled, bring about the creation and reproduction of life. In the world of visible things, the principle of opposites makes possible the differentiation by categories through which order is brought into the world. (Wilhelm)

Well, Yi is right about one thing - I DON`T KNOW.:duh:
 

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