Hex 23.1.5 Is a relationship possible with that person?

[Sofia Andrews]

Dear all,

Hope you guys fine.

I 'd like to ask some views/thoughts on the hex I got.
Would apprciate if you tell me how you think of it.

I asked Yi as below.
Is a relationship possible with that person?

Actually,
We are just strangers and we met each other at the bank every month.
Since I met him, I felt that I was loved with him.
But I dun know whether he has interest in me or not.

I got answer as below.
Hex 23.1.5> hex 42.

Hex 23 says splitting apart.
.1of Wilhem reminds me that the leg of the bed is split
Which means even I continue this feeling upon him,
It doesn't work and it is not worth to go further.

.5 says me that
"A shoal of fishes.
Favor comes through the court ladies.
Everything acts to further.''

What does it ''everything acts to further'' mean?

As I see it,
If I let it go that feeling and face isolation temporarily or permanently, the true man will meet and it is worth to go further.

Seem incorrect with my interpretation. Hee hee.

But i would like to hear your sincere thoughts too.

With many thanks,
Sofia

 

[equinox]

Is he an employee of this bank?

 

[Sofia Andrews]

Yes. He is

 

[equinox]

Yes. He is

Well, that's why he will never start to flirt with you openly, even if he likes you. A bank is a conservative, very formal business and I am sure he would risk his job if he threw himself on female costumers. And maybe he is shy as well.
In my opinion, the I-Ching is saying that YOU have to take action, which is indicated by line 5, that is even literally saying 'favor comes through the court ladies. Everything acts to further'
So try to make a contact, even if it seems as difficult to you as grabbing fishes in the water. Hex 42 is saying that you can only gain here, in which way ever.
Line 1 is indicating, that you are emotionally beating yourself up here, which is unnecessary.

 

[Sofia Andrews]

Dear Senior, Enuinox,

Line 1 is indicating, that you are emotionally beating yourself up here, which is unnecessary.

Yes you are right on me.

I always beat myself up for romance. I really like him but I still dun know how I should contact to him with the best way.
On the other hand, I am afraid if he denies for my feeling too after I took action (something).

 

[Trojina]

Hang on is this bank situation connected to this https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?25590-Hex-33-2-5-gt-50-Should-or-shouldn-t

In that thread it wasn't you but a friend who wants to send flowers, it must surely be the same situation so is it your question or the friend's ?

 

[equinox]

I am getting confused. Unlike other banks, this one seems to be a really exciting place.
Anyhow, if this is the same constellation like in the other thread, I second Trojina.

So surely if she/he/you wants to make a connection to the bank clerk it would be more sensible to approach in a different way.

23.5 in the other thread could suggest you communicate your interest through the clerk's colleagues/friends etc etc that way it won't be too embarrassing if she is not interested.

Flowers, love letters etc. all this stuff -- and then even sent on such an symbolic date like Valentin's day -- is way too romantic, too heavy, simply way too much if you don't know somebody.
Just smile at him and look if he responds positively. If he does, then this time or the next time, say you find him nice and would like to have a coffee with him. And then you give him your number on a sheet of paper, together with your documents. Something like that, in a discrete manner, easy-going.

 

[equinox]

On the other hand, I am afraid if he denies for my feeling too after I took action (something).

I don't know if you will be successful, I-Ching is not giving an answer if he is ready for a relationship with you. It is also way too early to think about it. First of all you have to make a contact. I think Yi is saying that you'll have to make the first step. But not in a grand romantic gesture, as already said.

 

[Sofia Andrews]

Dear Senior, Equinox,


"Just smile at him and look if he responds positively. If he does, then this time or the next time, say you find him nice and would like to have a coffee with him. And then you give him your number on a sheet of paper, together with your documents.
Something like that, in a discrete manner, easy-going."


Thank you very much for your kind advice and I will try to get him hee hee.
I am very grateful to your kind suggestion.

 

[Sofia Andrews]

Dear Senior, Equinox,


"Just smile at him and look if he responds positively. If he does, then this time or the next time, say you find him nice and would like to have a coffee with him. And then you give him your number on a sheet of paper, together with your documents.
Something like that, in a discrete manner, easy-going."


Thank you very much for your kind advice and I will try to get him hee hee.
I am very grateful to your kind suggestion.

 

[Sofia Andrews]

Dear Senior, Trojina,

Hang on is this bank situation connected to this https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frie...d-or-shouldn-t

In that thread it wasn't you but a friend who wants to send flowers, it must surely be the same situation so is it your question or the friend's ?

-> This question "Hex 23.1.5 Is a relationship possible with that person?", is for me.

but for another thread which you mentioned, it is about my boy friend.

How could you related this two thread?

Best Regards,
Sofia

 

[Sofia Andrews]

Dear Senior, Trojina,

Hang on is this bank situation connected to this https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frie...d-or-shouldn-t

In that thread it wasn't you but a friend who wants to send flowers, it must surely be the same situation so is it your question or the friend's ?

-> This question "Hex 23.1.5 Is a relationship possible with that person?", is for me.

but for another thread which you mentioned, it is about my boy friend.

How could you related this two thread?

Best Regards,
Sofia

 

[Trojina]

-> This question "Hex 23.1.5 Is a relationship possible with that person?", is for me.

but for another thread which you mentioned, it is about my boy friend.

How could you related this two thread?

Best Regards,
Sofia

Okay this is surreal and very confusing. On this thread https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?25590-Hex-33-2-5-gt-50-Should-or-shouldn-t you write

On this valentine day, he has plan to send flowers to the girl who is totally stranger to him.
He met the girl at the bank, he is also the regular customer of her bank.
He is being afraid if he sent flower to her and broke customer relationship suddenly and
he doesn't know whether she is single or married.

..and now you say that thread, the 'he' in that thread is your boyfriend ? Well if he's your boyfriend why is he thinking about sending flowers to a girl in a bank.

So that thread is about your boyfriend sending flowers to a girl in a bank and this thread, the one we are on now, is about you and some guy at a bank ?

it doesn't make any sense.


You have two threads about different people being attracted to bank clerks. You now say the guy in the other thread is your boyfriend ?

I give up, it just makes no sense.

How could you related this two thread?

Why wouldn't I relate the two threads ? They are both started by you and both are about being in love with a bank clerk only in this thread it's you who wants the bank clerk and in the other thread your boyfriend wants the bank clerk.

So both you and your boyfriend want the bank clerk ?

I give up.

 

[Trojina]

......and surely there can't be two different bank clerks in your life who you and your boyfriend are attracted to. There's only one bank clerk right ?