Hex 26.1,3,4,6 > 32 relationship

[SMF2004]

Hi,
I am little confused with the hexagrams I am receiving.
I have a relashionship that I thought that will develop into something else, something more.
Suddenly, he is away, distance and I don't understand why?
I don't want to push him, so I am giving him space, if he wants to look for me ok but I am not looking for him so he won't feel pushed.
I asked what to expect from the relationship and got 29, which is almost a way to say it is crumbling and nothing else can be done to save it... Maybe this is me, and what I am feeling
But if I asked if our relationship will evolve and he will make me his girlfriend and the answer was 26 into 32, which is not bad! It seems our love will consolidate and he will make me his girl friend
Long time ago, I asked about our future and it showed 19>3.
What do you think?
Thanks

 

[ginnie]

If you are in a relationship and get hexagram 26, you usually feel uncomfortable.

Please note that line 1 of hex 26 says that trouble threatens and that it would be wise to bring activities to a halt. Also, you received hex 29 for what to expect from this relationship, which is basically saying the same thing.

I think you don't know him very well and you should call it off immediately, since the I Ching has let you know that there is nothing but trouble and fear down the road with this man.

 

[SMF2004]

Thank you
I think somehow I have everything on halt, Because I am not pusuing him, pushing him or anything. Just when it is necessary because we work together

 

[innertruth]

Could it be he is married or involved with someone?

 

[diamanda]

Very possible that he's married/involved with someone, because of changing lines 26.3 and 26.4.
26.3 - the cart suggests relationship, and he temporarily leaves that to chase 'horses'
26.4 - I've seen this many times to mean that the partner of an unruly person constrains them

what to expect from the relationship and got 29
- more of the same dangerous situations with him

if your relationship will evolve to girlfriend status - 26.1,3,4,6 > 32
Either no because he's got somebody else (26.3, 26.4) and he will occasionally make you happy (26.6), and the whole thing will continue as it is (32), OR,
if you become his girlfriend (26.3, 26.4), he won't be faithful, and he will occasionally make you happy (26.6), and the whole thing will continue as it is (32).

So there is some sort of future between you, but it looks unstable to me.

 

[innertruth]

Another question, was he originally more interested than you were?

 

[SMF2004]

Innertruth - no, he is not involved with anyone. However, he had a very complicated relatioship that marked him long time ago, making him to connect with his feeling something really hard.
Was he more interested than me, yes, but he is 10 years older and I know that is something else that make him think, because for him what others thinks weight too much. He has to be perfect, he cannot have flaws...

Diamanda- thank you. Definately and totally unstable, when things get too muh for him. He runs away, when he notices I walked away he gets back, until the cycle repeats