Hex 26.6 to 11 Situation of a relationship

[lexxmexx]

Hi everyone,

My ex and me had broken up a year ago and we had not been in much contact since. I tried to contact her again last Christmas but she was cold to me and said that she is seeing someone now. She seems to be avoiding me now and refusing contacts with me.

I had asked the iChing about my current situation with her two nights ago and received hex 26.6 which changes to 11.

Honestly, I really hope to patch up with her. From what I had read so far about the casted hexagrams, it seems quite optimistic that my wish will come true. It feels like an advise that I should just let things unfold and things will turn out great for us.

However, what I am experiencing now seem to be the opposite, I am wondering if I am getting false hopes from the reading.

I hope to seek further advice on what the hexagrams mean to me. Thanks!

 

[Nevermind]

Hi.
What are the relations between your parents and her?
Can that be the reason she is staying far away?

 

[lexxmexx]

Hi,
They got along fine with her. She is only about 30 minute drive from where I'm staying. She is seeing someone now though, are you referring to an obstacle that is preventing us from being together?

 

[Nevermind]

Yea. Your line is behind a line that is marked as Resource. That can mean Parent or some knowledge, documents etc. And that line is clashing with her line... Makes sense that is what the problem is...
So was wondering what it represents...

Edit: By far away I meant the lines - keeping distance etc. Doesn't matter where she is physically.

 

[lexxmexx]

Do you mind shedding more light on what the problem is? What clashing lines are you referring to?

 

[moss elk]

...she is seeing someone now. She seems to be avoiding me now and refusing contact with me...I am wondering if I am getting false hopes from the reading.

No, you aren't getting false hopes from the reading. You brought those false hopes with you into the reading, and quite a bit of denial about the relationship being over.

 

[Nevermind]

Well... Maybe it's just wrong reading for some reason. Some feedback will be appreciated, and below is how it goes.
The resource line... It may be something else(like knowledge or documents etc.) but on 2th line in this type of question usually is someones parent.


I assume you asked 19 dec. since you gave 2 days ago as time of asking...
▅▅▅▅▅Yin Tiger(Officer) >>>> You Metal (Child)
▅▅　▅▅Zi Water(Asset)
▅▅　▅▅Xu Earth(Sibling)
▅▅▅▅▅Chen Earth(Sibling)
▅▅▅▅▅Yin Wood(Officer)
▅▅▅▅▅Zi Water(Asset)

Hidden Lines: Line 2: Wu Fire(Parent), Line 3 Shen Metal(Child)

You are asking, that means you are on line 2. About a girl, means she will be on the line wherever Asset is. Yong will show the relationship.

However in this case since Yong is line 5, she is already on top of that line.
There is another possible guy on line 6. That is also the only moving line.

Her line isn't combining with you, however she isn't combining with him either. Won't combine after he moves too, so whatever relationship she has with him isn't as strong as it may seem.
Her line is stepping on Black Tortoise. That may mean there may be something not said/hidden or a lie involved in the info from her. One more reason to think she may not be in very serious relationship with the other guy.

His line is moving. However he is turning to Child, and You metal. That don't have any relation to her line other then being resource for it. That relationship(You - Zi) in BaZi and Chinese astrology is usually called Destruction, however traditionally in Yi Jing we ignore it and only look that his line is resource for her. That may mean some kind of support and relationship, but not sure how serious it can be without combination.

Line 2 is the interesting aspect.
Behind your line is hidden a line of Wu Yang Fire Horse. That line, however is something that you are producing, so empowering it, you lose the chance to directly interact with the situation. That line interacts in your place.

That line is marker as Parent/Resource/Seal. That can mean someones Parent(and since it's so close to you it's usual guess that it's your parent), it can mean education or form of study, it can mean someone very educated like a university profesor etc. and it can also mean documents/paperwork.

That line is clashing her line. That is... Well, it's relation from the Chinese Astrology, it just means that the 2 lines are opposing each other, it can mean a problem, conflict, crash etc. between what is indicated(in this case her and the Resource/Parent line).

If she doesn't have any problems with your parents that you know of, only other thing I can think of, is if you are going through some education course, or very busy work with documents that is the problem. Other thing that could be is that she knows something that is the problem, and the clash with that is preventing her to interact directly with you. Since Resource can also show knowledge.
Combining with the fact that your line is covered by Polaris/Curved Array, that give one more Image of entanglement, something difficult to get out of and emptiness.
Even more so when it's in void.

And your line is void right now. That means again that you can't interact with the situation directly until you are out of void(that will happen in 6 days). Also makes the "emptiness" aspect stronger and it gives some idea that all that is connected to that "Resource" showing as Wu Horse. Wu Horse can show extreme heat or something expanding etc.

So some knowledge/person/job that is interacting instead of you with her and the whole situation and that is also the big problem since it's clashing with her can be alternative explanation.

If none of this seems to check out, then it's just wrong reading. In that case just just ignore it...

 

[lexxmexx]

Thanks for the in depth analysis, I had read and re-read several times. However, there are some area which I don't really understand.


"I assume you asked 19 dec. since you gave 2 days ago as time of asking..."

I consulted the iChing on 17 Jan.



"His line is moving. However he is turning to Child, and You metal. That don't have any relation to her line other then being resource for it. That relationship(You - Zi) in BaZi and Chinese astrology is usually called Destruction, however traditionally in Yi Jing we ignore it and only look that his line is resource for her. That may mean some kind of support and relationship, but not sure how serious it can be without combination."

Did you mean his line that was being resource/destruction and does not have any relation to hers? What kind of destruction could this be?


"Line 2 is the interesting aspect...
That line is clashing her line. That is... Well, it's relation from the Chinese Astrology, it just means that the 2 lines are opposing each other, it can mean a problem, conflict, crash etc...."

Astrological speaking, I'm a tiger and she is a monkey which somehow clashed. But we go along fine when we were together then.


"If she doesn't have any problems with your parents that you know of, only other thing I can think of, is if you are going through some education course, or very busy work with documents that is the problem. "

So far, there isn't any obstruction or anything legal between her and my parents and vice versa.


"Combining with the fact that your line is covered by Polaris/Curved Array, that give one more Image of entanglement, something difficult to get out of and emptiness.
Even more so when it's in void. And your line is void right now. That means again that you can't interact with the situation directly until you are out of void(that will happen in 6 days). "

What is this void/emptiness that you had mentioned?

What will happen when I'm out of that void?

The 6 days that you had mentioned, is it literally 6 days which is 25 Jan or it is just a metaphor?



"So some knowledge/person/job that is interacting instead of you with her and the whole situation and that is also the big problem since it's clashing with her can be alternative explanation. "

Do you mind elaborating more on this, like who is clashing with her? The person that is interacting with her is the person she is seeing now since she had shut me out completely.

 

[Nevermind]

Too much doesn't fit, reading went wrong somewhere...

How did you made the hexagram, by the way?Threw coins 6 times?

 

[mirian]

My experience with hex 26 sixth line is "the situation is as it is", meaning it is not for you to do anything or expect anything either. Sometimes translated as "heaven's highway", this line in my experience shows things moving according to fate, or destiny, or whatever you want to call it, basically events that are beyond your control. So I would avoid reading too much into this, imagining a prediction and/or outcome that is just not there.

 

[lexxmexx]

Too much doesn't fit, reading went wrong somewhere...

How did you made the hexagram, by the way?Threw coins 6 times?

Yes, I threw 3 coins 6 times.

 

[lexxmexx]

So I would avoid reading too much into this, imagining a prediction and/or outcome that is just not there.

I had looked up several iChing books. All mentioned about some obstacles but line 6 which changed the hex to 11 gave me some hopes. Whatever the outcome is (line 6 mentioned some form of success though, I guess only time will tell.

 

[Nevermind]

I had looked up several iChing books. All mentioned about some obstacles but line 6 which changed the hex to 11 gave me some hopes. Whatever the outcome is (line 6 mentioned some form of success though, I guess only time will tell.

I guess. Thanks for feedback, though, and good luck with the situation. : )

 

[mirian]

I had looked up several iChing books. All mentioned about some obstacles but line 6 which changed the hex to 11 gave me some hopes. Whatever the outcome is (line 6 mentioned some form of success though, I guess only time will tell.

I was not talking about books, I was talking about personal experience. Hope whatever happens is the best for you.

 

[kincadefoster]

Imagine this

Although you two are not together, you decided to remain friends (because you are secretly hoping this will lead to a rekindling of the relationship) and

Meanwhile she sees this guy and moves on to another guy later and maybe another, parading this in front of you until you feel sick inside and hate her and decide to stop being even friends with her

Start seeing someone else, even if you don't feel like it, if you are really actually important to her, she will feel this on an energy level and act accordingly. Or maybe things will go well with the new girl..

If you continue this way, having false hope, you will remain miserable