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Hex 34.5 and Hex 3. Two posibilities

MrFauno

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Hello.

3 months ago I broke with my partner. I know she miss me and she is very confuse about me. Im very confuse about her and I miss her too.

So i ask the Yi "If i ask her for meet up and talk, what is going to happen?"
I receive 34.5

Im aware this line is about not to waste my energy and let go the goat. Im confuse again, the Yi es telling me to not make contact with her or to make contact and let go my expectations with her?

Then i make other question "If i dont make any actions and I stay where im now, what is going to happen between us?"
And i receive Hex 3 unchanged

Please, I need help to understand the message here and make my decision about what to do or what not to do.
 

SebastianS

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Im aware this line is about not to waste my energy and let go the goat.

That's not entirely correct - you did not ask whether or not you should do it (which would also be quite a complicated wording), but your question was what is going to happen, if you ask her to meet up and talk. According to your answer, she would most likely decline your offer. Even if she wouldn't and you would indeed meet each other again, there wouldn't be much to gain relationshipwise according to your reading. However, you would possibly get some much needed closure. I think that this is the best way to go.
Your next reading, 3 unchanging, doesn't indicate any motion whatsoever. This is critical. Most likely, you would beat yourself up all the time, thinking about possible chances you never recognized, etc. So I would say, go for it, talk to her, and find some much needed closure of this relationship in order to look forward to another perspective in your life and also in hers (as indicated in 34.5: No remorse!)
 
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For 34.5 - it seems to me that in asking about meeting up with your x, you are perhaps seeking a 'bigger-picture' answer, as in, will your relationship continue? Or, will you get back together? So it carrys a bigger meaning than just, 'hey, let's get togther for old time's sake!'

My sense is the Yi is not telling you what the outcome will be, but that it is better to persist - which would be to ask your x to get together to talk. At the same time, Line 34.5 says you may (may, meaning maybe) lose something here, but more importantly, I think it is suggesting that you should be prepared to accept the outcome - to try and have no regrets - whatever your x's response is.

There is also a suggestion that you may get a decisive answer. That may feel scary, but it can also give you some peace and closure, especially when you consider the alternative, which would be to sit around and endlessly wonder how things might have turned out, if you'd only tried!

Best, D
 

MrFauno

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I read this after I make my call. I talk to her only to know she is meeting with someone else and decline my offer. So, yep, im closing this, with a feeling of getting hurt, but the closure is real at least. Thanks for take the time to readme and write to me. Now i have to look forward, and try to make of this freedom disguised as pain a new beggining to me.
 

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It's always tough to lose someone. With them you might lose old hopes and dreams, but you will also have new endless possibilities, once you got over this. And eventually there will be new hope and a new love in your life. I wish you the very best:).
 

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Gracias, Thank you Sebastian. I just want to get over this. Finally I find out that she started dating this person a week after finishing with me. So there is a piece of learning in this situation, I need to meditate better when choosing who to give myself to, people are not usually the best version of themselves, it is useless to hope for the best of people. Few and very rare people are trustworthy and that is what I am learning, not to get excited about a version of people who are not there, which is just a projection
 

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