Hex 43 Lines 1 and 4 to Hex 48

[sunnygirl]

I tried using the whilhem and legge translations but I don't understand it. I don't think I've ever cast a 43 before. I am using Sarah Dening translation for my attempt here.

Back ground: Things have been fine with the bf and I. No fights. In my mind I still had internal conflict about my upcoming move to his country. Something in my mind clicked and I was engaged and had made my decision. I really started working hard to get things done before I leave. It seems that as soon as I made up my mind, the bf disappeared. The 4th day I hadn't heard from him, I text him just saying, hi, how are you. I wait. No response. I call him about an hour later on the way to a meeting so I only had a minute to talk. He seemed annoyed. I just said hi and asked if he was ok. He said, what would make you think I wasn't ok? I said because I hadn't heard from you in a bit. He said, it's only been a couple of days. I didn't really respond to that and just said ok well I have meeting. I'll leave you alone. He tried to keep my on the phone then but I really had to go. 5 minutes later he starts texting me and I respond and thought we were having a little talk and then he just stops replying. I sent him a few more texts and no reply. Last time I heard from him was 3 days ago. He is wrapped up in this video game too.

Question: Why is bf being so distant lately?

43.1.4 to 48

It seems that the answer is advising me what to do rather than answering the question of why.

43 You must take a firm stand. An obstacle of some kind has to be overcome. It will not disappear on it's own accord.

43.1 However determined you may be, you are not strong enough to tackle the problem head on. Be cautious. Keep well within your limits.If you overestimate your capabilities you could seriously jeopardize your position.

43.4 It will not serve your best interests to insist on doing things your own way. If you would be less stubborn and listen to good advise the situation could be easily resolved.

48 Be true to yourself under all circumstances. Cooperate with others and be supportive in your relationships.

 

[willowfox]

"Question: Why is bf being so distant lately?

43.1.4 to 48"

Hex 43.1 seems to be addressed to you, that you should be very careful about your proposed trip, you should cancel and wait and see what happens.

Hex 43.4 says he is having many problems, he is agitated, upset and angry with someone. That he is being pig headed over some issue and it is causing conflict with others.

Hex 48 suggests that he is not getting something that he wants.

 

[sunnygirl]

Thank you. :bows:

I pretty much decided to cancel the trip yesterday. If I go, it will be first of July. I thought about going and just not tell him I am there. My job search is going so well there. I have not told him any of this as I haven't heard from him to tell him.

I wonder if he is mad at me? I can't think of anything I have done though.

I think he is angry at the world. He was angry that his game messed up. We haven't seen each other in 6 months. He is probably lonely but certainly would never tell me.

I am just being still at this point.