Hex 44.3.5.6 > 40 job issue

[lindorita]

Question:

How will it go when I will be working on my own?


I guess hex 44 is about myself and the inner resources I have but I would need your help for the interpretation of the lines:

Line 3
‘Thighs without flesh,
Moving awkwardly now.
Danger, no great mistake

Line 5
‘Using willow to wrap melons.
Containing a thing of beauty,
It comes falling from its source in heaven.’

This I associate to the fact that in my new job I am relying on my inner resources and my "essence" more than to the things I am capable of doing.
As far as I know line 5 on Hex 44 is quite a positive omen for job related issues,is that true?

Line 6
‘Coupling with your horns.
Shame – not a mistake.’

What does THAT mean??

I interpret the Hex 40 as the final result as a release after the great intial effort, am I right?
Glad about any input, thanks fellows!

lindorita

 

[gato]

relax and everything will be ok

 

[ginnie]

44.3.5.6 > 40

Hi Lindorita:

Top line moving is not bad news, in my opinion. You are right to want to get away from someone you wish to have nothing more to do with. If you keep yourself separate or ward someone off, that is as it should be.

Also, 44.6 changes to 28, and 28 is a hexagram very much associated with new business start-ups: So much to do.

Maybe right now you're at line 3 moving. 44.3 > 6? Conflict. You are having arguments with someone? Well, that's very exhausting and debilitating.

Seems like much better things are in store for you. It won't happen overnight, however. Make a decision to stick with it for the long haul, because new start-ups take time to get off the ground.

 

[willowfox]

Question:

How will it go when I will be working on my own? 44.3,5,6 > 40

It suggests that it will indeed be a toughie, therefore you will need resilience and fortitude to see this through but you know pretty much what it all entails, so prepare accordingly and don't be shy to ask for help when needed.

So it will be a while before anything runs "smoothly".

 

[lindorita]

THANKS A LOT TO YOU ALL FOR YOUR FEEDBACKS, very much appreeciated!


lindorita

 

[lindorita]

Hi Lindorita:
You are right to want to get away from someone you wish to have nothing more to do with. If you keep yourself separate or ward someone off, that is as it should be.

oh yes...this is so true!!


Maybe right now you're at line 3 moving. 44.3 > 6? Conflict. You are having arguments with someone? Well, that's very exhausting and debilitating.

Very debilitating...hope it will not be like this up to the day when I will be ready to leave..still need some time tough, any indication of time you see inhere?
( guess I will ask that!hmmmm)



lindorita

 

[ginnie]

Personally I think the I Ching can help you shift your mental perspective and it is always the right time to do that. As for what time the various lines might happen ... I am not good at that. Other people here at OnlineClarity are better with that.

 

[ginnie]

Very debilitating...hope it will not be like this up to the day when I will be ready to leave

Lindorita,
The quickest way to end an argument is simply to say nothing. You won't be a doormat. It's a strong position to be entirely self-controlled. It's a weak position to always be reacting to what the other person just said.

 

[themis]

Agree with Ginnie, it's entirely true. 'Lignorance est le pire des mépris'.

Lindorita, do ensure you have a contingency plan before your set up your own biz. It's necessary
to have funds to fall back on ... life can be unpredictable. So at least one CP would greatly assist
and facilitate as you may invest some capital into your new venture. Maximize the assets, minimize
the liabilities ... as far as possible. The beginning is usually the hardest part - getting it off the ground.

 

[lindorita]

Agree with Ginnie, it's entirely true. 'Lignorance est le pire des mépris'.

Lindorita, do ensure you have a contingency plan before your set up your own biz. It's necessary
to have funds to fall back on ... life can be unpredictable. So at least one CP would greatly assist
and facilitate as you may invest some capital into your new venture. Maximize the assets, minimize
the liabilities ... as far as possible. The beginning is usually the hardest part - getting it off the ground.

Thank you guys, I really appreciate your "caring" and advices.
I am not going to launch myself into the blue without having planned everything step by step.
I will be looking for help, have taken care of having assets aside to allow me the move, and am already building up my networking.
I know it might read iself as if I would be so fed up of the current on the job situation. as if I could walk out on basis of an instinct.
I just sense some bad vibes around me, and as I am experiencing so much fullfilment in the building up of my future job, this really bothers me.
As the IC said, I will not be shy, ( already am not!) to seek help.
But I know that having found my soul path, and my fullfilment, wil help me continuing and stick on my way.

It's just that the people I will have to deal with later, are completely different from those I still have to deal with now.

Thank you all, it's a pleasure reading all your answers!

lindorita

 

[lindorita]

Lindorita,
The quickest way to end an argument is simply to say nothing. You won't be a doormat. It's a strong position to be entirely self-controlled. It's a weak position to always be reacting to what the other person just said.

I know Ginnie, but as one of my strongest values is JUSTICE, I cannot stand it when the truth gets modified to somebody's advantage.
It's also a question of lack of respect, imho.
And each time this happens, it is like a slap into the face to me.

lindorita

 

[ginnie]

I know Ginnie, but as one of my strongest values is JUSTICE, I cannot stand it when the truth gets modified to somebody's advantage.
It's also a question of lack of respect, imho.
And each time this happens, it is like a slap into the face to me.

I hear you loud and clear about justice and fairness, Lindorita!

Unfortunately, whenever we are angry with someone, we are bound to him (or her) as if with bands of steel. Having a grievance is the worst kind of prison.

The truth cannot be modified, even if it seems so sometimes -- Don't go too much by what people say.

If you are being humiliated where you work, of course you need to move on. However, it is difficult to move on with angry thoughts and resentments clouding your heart and mind. It's a paradox, I'm sure! But most of us have gone through this ... and you can, too!