Hex. 47.1.4 and what someone wants from me

[indigo]

Hello there!

I asked the iching "what does x really want from me?"

Then got 47.1.4. I'm not quite sure how it would apply here but can't be good right...

I'm very thankful for any help given :bows:

Good day!

 

[emiliana2010]

Hi indigo,

I'm no expert at all, but I like to put in my two cents hoping to help as others have helped me.

It seems that x feels you are mission impossible and that if he/she gets busy with you will probably have a hard time for quite a while.
Nevertheless x will stand by you and feed on whatever emotional crumble he/she will manage to get, but for a brief period of time only, then x will move on.

I repeat it, I am no expert!

All the best and ciao.

 

[indigo]

I'm very sorry for the late reply, emiliana2010, thank you for the answer! I really apreaciate your help :] I'll try and fix my situation now.

Much light to you, ciao

 

[precision grace]

I don't know ... tbh I think Yi answered you about your own attitude here and not about X. It's like, why do you even need to know what X wants from you? Isn't it enough to be who you are and know what you want and don't want and let other people take care of their own wants. If you are secure in your own self, then you are safe and happy. Anyway..just another angle to think about.

 

[indigo]

Sure, but when you love someone and you'd like to get back together you just have this silly hopeful thoughts they would want to be back with you too. :bag: Thanks for the reply, good day to you

 

[precision grace]

Sure, but when you love someone and you'd like to get back together you just have this silly hopeful thoughts they would want to be back with you too. :bag: Thanks for the reply, good day to you

aww. yes, I get it. listen to emiliana, your X does love you which is what you want to hear

 

[indigo]

Thanks precision grace that's a sweet message actually. Truth be told this person I asked probably doesn't love me in that way, much likely as a friend, which is how i would try to get together as ( not how I want to but because i really love this person and id be willing to suck it up and be friends since my love is unrequited and she is a straight girl etc.) It's a story worth of soap opera really

Sorry not meaning to be whining! Anyway thank you!

 

[precision grace]

oh it's ok, we all have someone we feel that way about..

but seriously, I have just looked at Bradford as well for this hexagram, and unless this person wants you to spank her and drag her through the mud, I still think the answer was talking to you about your attitude - ie, you are making things harder for yourself than they need to be.

Ask yourself, if someone was to tell you that this girl liked you the same way you like her, how would your thinking change?

 

[indigo]

oh it's ok, we all have someone we feel that way about..

but seriously, I have just looked at Bradford as well for this hexagram, and unless this person wants you to spank her and drag her through the mud, I still think the answer was talking to you about your attitude - ie, you are making things harder for yourself than they need to be.

Ask yourself, if someone was to tell you that this girl liked you the same way you like her, how would your thinking change?

Well it could mean she wants to spank me and drag through the mud

If someone told me she loved me I'd probably rationalize why there is evidence she doesnt in this morose mood and all (oh what an annoying spineless brat right?). Which might be leading to 47.1.4 right there...

Don't need to go that far to get an answer either: I recall i received 64.1.2.4.6 for if she loved me or not. Right now I'm at low point so I need to be realistic about my situation.

But I apreciate your advice. I'm trying to think things through before making any move. Much light to you :bows: