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I asked the I Ching: what is the probability of us getting back together again? My boyfriend and I broke up last sunday and I feel really sad, angry, and so on.
I would appreciate any insight or interpretation a lot.
Thanks a lot.
 

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If you want this love affair to continue, you cannot succeed unless you go very slowly and with persistence. Both 5 and 59 place great obstacles in the way and these obstacles cannot be done without you coming to grips with your own fears and wants. If you do that, and if you persist with great caution and not be impulsive, then you may have a chance to get together again. Otherwise, no.
 

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Hi Florecilla,

You seem to be in a place of dissolution at the moment; flooded by recent events, and all is washing away. Nothing to really hold onto. That's how i see the backdrop to the situation: 59.

5 is waiting. Waiting for nourishment so to speak. What to do next amid this dispersion, this letting go. I think you might be at line 3, waiting in the what Wilhelm calls the mud. Kind of stuck - as you say angry. Possibly if there is someone around to talk with, help objectify, see your part (and therefore your power) in the situation so not to fall into the pit of 4, even though that's not currently in your reading.

Line 6 of Hex 5 is an intriguing line for me. "Three guests." Who might they be? From the outer or the inner. Perhaps a film or a book even, to help put things into perspective. I've always heard when you're told something 3 times, pay very close attention.

Best wishes!
 

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If you want this love affair to continue, you cannot succeed unless you go very slowly and with persistence. Both 5 and 59 place great obstacles in the way and these obstacles cannot be done without you coming to grips with your own fears and wants. If you do that, and if you persist with great caution and not be impulsive, then you may have a chance to get together again. Otherwise, no.

Hello Icaster, thanks for your insight, however I have a question. I don't really understand what you mean by "go very slowly and with persistence". I feel I have done everything I could to save this relationship, and I feel it is him who should make a move, not me. Believe me,I have gone that extra mile for him. So, how should I be persistent? In not doing anything and staying away from him? In talking all this over again????
It is true there are obstacles, and even though I've got fears and insecurities, there are other obstacles that don't belong to me...
Looking forward for you answer,
Thanks a lot
 

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Hi Florecilla,

You seem to be in a place of dissolution at the moment; flooded by recent events, and all is washing away. Nothing to really hold onto. That's how i see the backdrop to the situation: 59.

5 is waiting. Waiting for nourishment so to speak. What to do next amid this dispersion, this letting go. I think you might be at line 3, waiting in the what Wilhelm calls the mud. Kind of stuck - as you say angry. Possibly if there is someone around to talk with, help objectify, see your part (and therefore your power) in the situation so not to fall into the pit of 4, even though that's not currently in your reading.

Line 6 of Hex 5 is an intriguing line for me. "Three guests." Who might they be? From the outer or the inner. Perhaps a film or a book even, to help put things into perspective. I've always heard when you're told something 3 times, pay very close attention.

Best wishes!

Hello nahema, thanks for your interpretation, as I can see, you interpret hex 59 as the current situation and hex 5 with its moving lines as the attitude I need to feel better, right??
My initial interpretation was to wait patiently taking care of myself, then the 6th line meant the end of that wait and hex 59 as getting together after some time (I have read in several websites both in English and Spanish -Huan signifies to disperse; on the contrary, the hexagram Huan is a hexagram of gathering things which are scattering, i.e. to dispel the dispersion. - and Tras una larga separación, debida a incomprensión reciproca, habrá una aclaración y tal vez la relación se reanudará con más serenidad y equilibrio. which means that after a long separation, due to mutual misunderstanding, there will be some clarification and maybe the relationship will continue with more serenity and balance.
Anyway, I guess it is just wishful thinking as I still have feelings and I hate the idea of all this breaking up.
I would apreciate more insights, if it is possible.
Thanks a lot.
 

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Hello Icaster, thanks for your insight, however I have a question. I don't really understand what you mean by "go very slowly and with persistence". I feel I have done everything I could to save this relationship, and I feel it is him who should make a move, not me. Believe me,I have gone that extra mile for him. So, how should I be persistent? In not doing anything and staying away from him? In talking all this over again????
It is true there are obstacles, and even though I've got fears and insecurities, there are other obstacles that don't belong to me...
Looking forward for you answer,
Thanks a lot

If you have done all you can do, then that's it, isn't it? Walk away. 59 is dispersion, and you can walk away and let him decide. No point in hitting one's head on the proverbial wall. If, however, you haven't done everything, then you might try some more.
 

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He rang me last monday and yesterday night but I wasn't at home. I don't know what he wants. Should I ask the I Ching? I don't feel like calling him to see what he wants.
 

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if you don't want to automatically call him back then that's a fair indication that ultimately you are not into getting back together with him, 59... leave it and let it disperse. probably more time needs to pass anyway until emotions clear away and then you can have a good conversation with him, whether or not just for closure sake.
 

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Hex 45

I asked Why has he called me to my home phone? I got hexagram 45. Do you think he wants to get back with me?
 

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I have also asked What should I do regarding his phone calls? I got 42 (1) changing into hex 20. What do you think I should do? Please, I need your insights. Thanks so much.
 

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Hello Florecilla,

I hope you are all right. It's hard to deal with break-up.
Moving lines on Hexagram 5 suggest that time is required to deal with your break-up. You will, eventually move on and find someone suitable (one of the 3 guests in line 6) and that will lead to a dispersion (hex 59) of your current emotion.

In regards to his phone calls, I think he is just checking whether you are all right...Hex 45.
Hex 42.1 further suggest that it is time for you to move on, you will find someone better and by then you will view this relationship as a past (Hex 20).

However, if you are concern about whether to call him back, feel free to do so. I know it is hard to hold back but my advice is not to hold any expectation. Your casts do not carry signs that the both of you will be back together.. plus, expectation brings disappointment.....
 

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45... I think he wants to keep in touch.

42.1>20 think about it first and if you decide to answer tap into your strength and greatness, selflessness (wilhelm) use your abilities (lise). or if you decide not to answer, the same.

Also from this point of contemplation which you are currently in, go ahead and increase your contact with him.

45, 42.1 > 20 are both positive, looks like good things will come out of taking action.
 

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