Hex 51.1 to 16

[River1980]

I asked yi why he did not want to pursue a relationship with me. I feel quite rejected.

I don't think I am going to like the answer to this reading.

Is this a reading for myself. That I am in shock but will later get over it.

Please help

 

[diamanda]

I checked my journal and it seems I always got this combo in relation to situations ending. In one entry I had written the comment, "what a joke..." (meant bitterly). The deception of 16 was also obvious in those situations. And no, I'm still not laughing with those situations, they were all painful and I still don't see anything funny, even after years.

I'm not exactly certain of the full meaning here. Perhaps the whole thing was a joke to him? He did it for fun? To deceive you?

 

[rosada]

51.1 suggests a shock. Perhaps it is saying that you were shocked by the break up which makes me think that you had been assuming he was more committed to the relationship than he really was. So while I don’t think this line tells us if he intentionally set out to deceive you, I do see it as saying he didn’t pursue a deeper relationship because - shock! - commitment was never his intention to begin with.

 

[River1980]

Thank you Rosada, I agree, I don't think he wanted a committed relationship. I think he always knew for him it would be temporary

 

[diamanda]

I've been reading some older 51.1 > 16 threads.

A thread was about someone's estranged wife, she was trying to implicate the poster in a court case with a fraudster. The wife was a highly dodgy character too. The poster didn't get involved in the court case, however the estranged wife managed to reel in and torment the poster for quite some time later (court case, continued torment).

Another poster was asking how a particular evening would go, "the culmination of lots of personal efforts where I have placed a lot of emotional energy". Result - "the night was an unmitigated disaster". The poster tried to correct the situation the next day, but it still ended up badly.

There it was again in the case of a highly nasty woman who was verbally abusive to lovely Liss and also badmouthed her around their small community.

And last but not least... here's a highly disturbing love / deception story.

River, I think you had a lucky escape, even if involuntary.