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starshine

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Hi I am new to this forum.

Thought I'd ask your advice re a reading! I often go on line to see the responses from other readings when I ask the IC a question.

I got hex 52 with lines 3 and 5 moving.
My question to the I ching was: give me advice on how I am going to create my dream/wish of having a baby before I get too old (I'm 36).

A bit of background: i recently split with my long term partner (ended really badly) had a few relationships in my 30's that haven't lasted. In my 20s I was much more successful in my relationships.. (although none of them workout in the long run) I think because I wasn't so concerned about it all then.

I am still upset about the brake up, and if I didn't have the whole biological clock thing would give myself a very long brake before I entered into another relationship...but having a child is one of the most important things to me, and i feel i will really regret missing out. So what to do? An older friend of mine (female), who didn't have children, said that at my age if I want children I should go about it by myself if I needed to; could focus on finding a relationship later, in some ways I kind of agree with her, but can't support a child by myself financially, and could never go to a sperm bank or anything like that. so feel I need to focus on finding a new relationship.. to be honest I don't really know what to do, but i know i could put the issues to the back of my mind and another 5 years could easily slip by.. So anyway that's why I asked the I ching...hope that's not too much background info..Any advice appreciated :)
 
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Your relating hexagram is 20, elevated contemplation, an image of a tower, seeing and being seen. This is an important aspect of your answer.

52 is the image of a mountain, which refers to stability. In line three that stability is stifling your heart which isn't healthy. It suggests forcing stillness. This make me think that perhaps you need to relax and socialize a bit more, but without too much determination to reach your desired goal. Line 5 refers to your words having order, and that includes your self-talk. This leads me to think there's nervous tension inside, which rather than trying to force quietness, to relax and allow composure to put these things into perspective. When you reach unforced composure, your world gains a sense of order. From this inner composure, things will make more sense, the urgency you feel to act will be gone. Then whatever course you choose will be sensible and secure. In fact, having this composure draws the right kind of people to you, possibly even a compatible mate. Think about it, but relax.
 

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Yea I think looking back 52.3, meant I was still really upset over the brake-up. And I was stifling my heart, by already even thinking about someone else.

But then I had a bit of a fling with someone soon after that, helped me get back on track and I met a few more people, but nothing has become serious. Maybe after India I will be more in the frame of mind :)
 

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