hex 54.1.4>7 in search of love

[stronglightning]

Hello everyone! I asked the ching if I will ever live a true love, someone who loves me as I am. The response was the hexagram 54.1.4> 7.In this period of my life I am very disheartened towards people, I have suffered a lot. In search for myself I wonder if there really is anyone out there who can understand me and love me, bringing out the best part of me. Could you help me in the interpretation? Thank you all in advance.

 

[Trojina]

Hello everyone! I asked the ching if I will ever live a true love, someone who loves me as I am. The response was the hexagram 54.1.4> 7.In this period of my life I am very disheartened towards people, I have suffered a lot. In search for myself I wonder if there really is anyone out there who can understand me and love me, bringing out the best part of me. Could you help me in the interpretation? Thank you all in advance.

Well first the person who can understand you, love you and bring out the best part of you isn't 'out there' at all they are right there in the room with you. Yes you. I know it's a bit of a cliché to say love yourself first but it matters more than anything because it gives you a good strong basis to love other people or try to and you aren't going to let you down or leave you are you ?

I don't think the key to all happiness lies in another person but I understand your wish to be with someone.


However there's some stuff to clear up before I can go near the reading.


1. 54.1.4 does not change to 7 it changes to 2. 51.1..2.4 changes to 7 so what did you actually cast ?

2.
It looks to me like you don't go back to threads like this one and this one and this one

and even in this one where you did go back it's looks like you didn't really seem to hear the responses

Maybe you couldn't find the threads when you wanted to go back to them ? Though you have managed to find your way back to some of them.

 

[mutatis mutandis]

54.1.2 changes to 7. It does.

 

[Trojina]

It does yes, perhaps I was drunk or something.