Hex 63 changing to 13 - love affair issue, plse help

[viviank]

Hey everyone,

In need of help with the question: "Will mike and me be together?"
I can tell that 63 is probably positive but what about 13? does the combination matters? Does the answers indicate difficulty for my wish to be fulfilled? I am very upset emotionally so any help will be extremely appreciated!!

Thanks for your help in advance

 

[jesed]

Hi viviank

Seems like the posibilities to be together are vanishing in the air. Sorry to hear that.

a) In a tex-based interpretation, this is a bad omen; even worse if you asked after august 2008.

b) In a nontext-based interpretation, I would need to know the hour (aprox), day and month when you casted the answer; and if you are a woman or a man.

Best wishes

 

[viviank]

Hello jesed!! thank you for answering me in the first place!
But are you sure about that?
I asked the question today at 18:30 local time and I am a woman! Actually I got 63 with 4th and 6th lines changing an I thought is 13! I don't know a lot about I-ching yet!!
What 13 means that he now wants to be a friend?
Again ...are you sure?

 

[jesed]

No; I'm not sure at all, for several reasons
a) No one can interpret for you. Yi's answers need to be discerned, not only "interpreted". By "discernment" I mean the cross-examination between the "model" described in the answer and the "reality" (wich only you know)
b) I don't know if you were in such a inner state that gives credibility to the answer
c) Even in a merely technical interpretation, I need to check with the date when you did the cast to arrive into a conclusion.

I won't say anything about "a" and "b"; but I can provide some comments about "c"

Best

 

[jesed]

Technical interpretation sent as private message

 

[viviank]

I wanted to thank jesed and in the thread!! really nice of you!!

 

[viviank]

the answer to the question "what is the best thing to do about this feeling?",
that is about being in love with m, was 17 with first, fourth and fifth lines changing to 2. Is that a good one or I should "kill" him? I also asked what's going to happen with mike and I got 46 unchaned!!

 

[willowfox]

There are problems ahead in forming a relationship with this guy but if you put effort into the cause then you can expect better and friendlier cooperation from him in the future, but whether this turns to love, you will have to wait and see but a lot depends upon you now.

 

[viviank]

Thanks willowfox!
I have read other post of you and you always are shrarp and clear!!
But what do you mean a lot depends upon me?

 

[willowfox]

But what do you mean a lot depends upon me?

Well, the last line says there is a need for you to keep moving forward and don't standstill, indicating a need for persistent action. Takes two to make any kind of relationship.

 

[viviank]

Thanks again willowfox!

"Takes two to make any kind of relationship." That 's what I was afraid of - joking....

Your help is appreciated!! I only wish things turn out to be well in the end!! Cause my feelings are for real and I haven' t realized how intense they are! I really care about him!!

 

[viviank]

I just wanted to update!!
The story unfolded as exactly as Jessed suggested for the text based interpretation and in his private messages. The silk turned to rugs. It was very very painful and took a long time to collect my self because I suddenly in one evening realized what role he was holding of himself and immediately asked him not to call me ever again. But he did not give up until I stopped picking up the phone. Then I 've learned he would go to Romania for a new position. I thought I was ok but one month after I saw him with his "new" girlfriend when I went at an event I was invited. This girlfriend was the whole time on the picture and I did n't know...