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parasio

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Hello,
I need a little help to understand this reading:
The man who - as I think - really love nontheless we had never a relationship and he always refuses me, gave me last saturday the final kick in the ass.
Really bad experience!
Yesterday I did a reading: "How is the situation between us?"
Ok, I know, a really silly question. It's an insane situation, but on the other side, I dream always about him, very vivid dreams.
It seems as my subconscious has a very strong bond with him, although in realty things are different.

And now the I Ching says: Hex 8 unchanging!!!

I understood Hex 8 always as to say YES to somebody/something, and got it also before concerning this bloke, when there was still some hope.
But now???
I would like some insight, thanks.
 

mesmer

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I think you have to consult the oracle a second time, to specify the nature of the association you could still have with this person:

HOLDING TOGETHER brings good fortune.
Inquire of the oracle once again
Whether you possess sublimity, constancy, and perseverance;

Then there is no blame.
Those who are uncertain gradually join.
Whoever come too late
Meets with misfortune.
 

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I go with the translation for hex. 8 as being "Seeking Union," rather than "Holding Together" meaning I see 8 as saying you are seeking to have union rather than holding on to something you already have. And since you received 8 unchanging the implication is that nothing changes beyond this - the seeking doesn't lead to having. Not a very compassionate response IMO! I mean, it seems like the IC is just telling you in a rather flat way that the situation between the two of you is that you are seeking union and it's not happening. Well duh.
 

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It might have happened if it was right.
It didn't happen. It wasn't right. Now it's late.
Try to sense where you really belong and go there instead.
Note that that said try to sense where you belong, not try to go there.
With Hex 8 we drop hopes, fantasies, plans and expectations -
they get in the way. We have to sort of follow our feelings home,
like water gathers.
 

parasio

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Thank you so such for your responses.
Yes, I was seeking union. But the problem is/was that I really felt at home with him.
 

parasio

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are you guys even close friends?

I thought we were friends, but ... I fooled myself. I felt a lot of friendship for him, I was really caring.

***And I forgot in my first message to mention, that at the very beginning he was searching me, he is a friend of friends and I saw him normally once, twice a year. Then suddenly he behaved as he liked me really, that he was thinking of me etc....

I'm in the moment without internet, so I can't always check the thread.
 

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