Hexagram 1...all over the place?!

[kdedeaux4]

I asked the IC what is I need to do involving my relationship with my ex. I still love him very much, but I fluctuate constantly on what I want and how I should proceed (or not proceed) in regards to this man and our relationship. I have been choosing to step back considerably from him. However, in stepping back so much, it seems as if the energy surrounding this situation has amplified (if that even makes any sense to anyone?!?). I am definitely more peaceful in my thoughts regarding it all and I'm so grateful for that. I have resigned myself to "what will, be will be" and just allow myself to go with the natural flow of my feelings and the situations which arise. However, I'm now in a situation where I have to make some significant life choices and in reflecting on the choices, my thoughts keep going back to him. I think I need to discover what that relationship is all about and what is its purpose and future might be before I feel comfortable making such choices, but I'm terribly confused as to what I want and what the best course in general is for me regarding this situation!

IC told me Hexagram 1 with lines 2,3,4, 5, 6 changing to Hexagram 24.

Not at all what I was expecting and I don't understand the message!

In addition, I asked IC for insight regarding his position and feelings about our relationship and IC said Hexagram 20, line 4, changing to 12. From my limited knowledge, that sounds terrible!!

I welcome any insight into what IC is telling me about this confounding ever-changing situation.

Thank you:bows:

 

[willowfox]

Something new and better is coming, so be patient and wait your turn, then life will get so much better.

 

[dobro p]

Yes, what Willow said. And another, more mechanical way to say it might be: creative forces are at work in your life right now which are taking you to a new start.

 

[maurey]

I too have posted about Hexagram 1. For me it has always been a very positive indicator in my life but when it comes up in reference to relationships I always feel a bit confused by it. I do agree with the other responses, it seems that you are at a crossroads in your life but you are being helped by the creative forces of the universe and you will turn your back on the past and the mistakes you made in order to find something ahead that will be wonderful for you. Good luck!

I don't think the energy/intensity amplifying after you split sounds weird at all... in some ways it is the story of my life at the moment!

xx

 

[kdedeaux4]

Willow & Dobro, you two are so wonderful to respond with such peaceful encouragement! I feel like this surge of energy mixed with a sense of peace IS a positive move in a new direction and I want desperately to just sit in that for awhile, be lazy about it, and just let things happen as they will. Then "life" pushes me in a corner where I'm forced to make decisions which I just don't feel ready to make due to the deep confusion and vast emotions surrounding that relationship...arghhhhh!!!
You two are always so confident in your insight and that helps me so very much to remember to just trust and try not to drive myself crazy going round and round in battles between my head and my heart. I am very grateful for you and your insight!!

Maurey... thank you for your understanding and compassion!! It helps so much to know that I'm not the only person whose ever gone through this type of odd situation!

Thank you all for taking the time to read and for your kindness in responding! Life sure can throw some curveballs sometimes. Right now, I'm wishing a loud booming voice from the heavens would just come and boss me around telling me exactly what the right choices are
Much gratitude to you all:bows:

~Namaste~