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MariaElisa

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Hello All,

This is my first post, have to say I love this site and people are very kind in sharing their insights.

I have been going out with this man for a year now, slowly from friendly outings that turned into more romantic, my divorce is not final yet and is very complicated. My friend divorced four years ago and we became close friends. We support each other specially during stressful times.

Every date gets more intense and deep, but I have the feeling he is holding back his feelings and for the same reason I'm holding back mine, no one has expressed theirs to the other.

My question: when he will express his feelings for me? I received hexagram 11.2.4.5>49

Please your help is very very much appreciated!!!

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Hi

It seems like for the time being, although he has strong feelings for you, his feelings are more focused on family issues (does he have offsprings? kids?) Could it be the case that the ex-wife is using their kids to keep him under her influence? That seems from the answer if you use the Wen Wang Gua system of interpretation.

In that system, the relative Parent is the spirit of focus for news, communications, notice, etc. So, it would be the useful relative to know when he would communicate his feelings to you. In hexagram 11, the relative Father has the earthly branch Si (fire) and the subject line (representing you) has the eartly branch Chen (earth), fire produces earth, so there is a chance for good news for you. But Si is hidden; therefore, there are circumstances preventing him to communicate his feelings to you. Most probably Si would be able to get out of hide, but to be sure and to know when, it would be necessary to know the correct date of casting (month/day/hour when you got the answer from Yijing).

Best wishes
 

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Thank you Sixth Relative, your interpretation is very accurate, he does have children, not small young adults and the daughter still living with the mother, it seems there is some friction he is trying to reconnect with his daughter, something I encourage strongly, but the rol of the mother there I'm not very clear about that, he mentioned he would tell me about.

That casting was made the same day I posted it maybe 20 or 30 minutes before posting it. The funny thing is that today just 10 minutes ago I asked the IChing again when we will open up to each other and express our feelings, answer hexagram 11.2.3 > 24, opinions?

Much love and gratitude!
 

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Hi MariaElisa

The system gives the GTM day/hour, but I'm not sure if that is your local time as well.

So, to be sure: did you cast on March 9th, 2016 around midnight in you local time?

Best wishes
 

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Hi Sixth Relative:

Ir should have been the night of March 8th sometime between 7-8pm. And as for the last cast it was on March 25th around 9pm. Hope that helps!

I really appreciate your help!

Blessings!
 

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Hi Maria Elisa

Ir should have been the night of March 8th sometime between 7-8pm.

Ok. In that case
a) Si can get out of hide,
b) It could be out of hidde either in a year/month/day Si or Chou.

Month Si will go from May 5th to June 4th; month Chou will go from December 29th 2016 to January 27th, 2017.

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And as for the last cast it was on March 25th around 9pm.

The relative Parent is the spirit of focus for news, communications, notice, etc. So, it would be the useful relative to know when he would communicate his feelings to you. In hexagram 11, the relative Father has the earthly branch Si (fire) and the subject line (representing you) has the eartly branch Chen (earth), fire produces earth, so there is a chance for good news for you. But Si is hidden; therefore, there are circumstances preventing him to communicate his feelings to you.

With the date when you got the answer, Si can get out of hide in a year/month/day Si.
 

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Thank you Sixth Relative! Only one thing confuses me, when you say year/month/day Si and then refer to May 5th to June 4th, is it 2016?

Blessings!
 

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Next Si year will be in 2025, so I guess your answer points to month/day rather than year.
 

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Thank you so much Sixth Relative!
In the intent to wrap up my whole consultation to the I Ching I just asked where is our love relationship going, received hexagram 37.2.4.5.6 > 34. This was cast today March 27 at 4.45pm local time.

Thank you and sorry for being a nuisance!
 

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Hi Maria Elisa

It is a mess!!! in 37zhi34 you can see the interaction of one man and 4 women:
a) The man is You (metal), it is hidden, meaning, it is unavailable until/if it gets out of hide.
b) One woman is Si (fire), under relative Offspring, representing a daughther... it sits on the Guess line, representing the man's feelings; therefore, his feelings are focusing in the relation with his daughter.
c) The subject line (representing you) is Chou (earth), under relative Wife. It clashes with Wei (earth, under relative Wife). Both Chou and Wei are active and hurting one to each other. It's like 2 woman fighting for the same man
d) The sixth line is Mao (wood) under relative Siblings (siblings, coallegues) changing to Chou under relative Wife (another woman). Chou combines with You.

Hexagram 34 is Total conflict. When you cast hoping for something, it means there is no hope; but when you cast fearing something, it means there is nothing to fear.

So, was you hoping that your relation is going to a positive place or fearing it is going to troubles?


From a text-based reading, 37zhi34: is this relation going to work (37) or get stuck (34)? be honest, be sincere, value yourself (you are a treasure), in the end there will be good fortune.

Wish you all the best
 
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